Here is the flowchart.
One thing to add is that he starts the texting process at 10 am the day that he wants the date so that he can leave time to get something set up for that night.
I have been using it with great success. The beauty is that it gets rid of:
1. Textual grab-ass that goes nowhere
2. Dry logical texts that kill her attraction
3. It is minimalistic in the sense that it does not allow her very much leeway to take leverage or play power games. You are texting her the day you want a date and it doesn't matter what her replies are, you just continue down the flowchart.
Even though it is good, I want to experiment with a modified version. Potential improvements that I notice right off the bat could be:
1. If x number of days have passed since getting the solid phone number, send a series of texts to keep her warm.
2. If x number of days have passed since getting the solid phone number, have a short phone date to keep her warm.
My biggest gripe with this flowchart is that it doesn't say much about girls going cold. Granted you are working with the hottest girls that you had the most chemistry with and these girls usually WANT to see you. However, due to scheduling constraints, some girls may not get hit up at all for a while.
As time passes after the night that the girl is met, the following happens:
1. Positive emotions fade...
2. Memories fade...
3. Investment fades
Jeffy thinks that it's ok to wait a week or more before first contacting the girl but in that time so much has happen in her life and mine and we've met a lot of new people. A lot of the positive emotions/memories have faded and the attraction has waned. I want to have a modified version that doesn't give up power or cause textual grab-ass that can be used when a girl hasn't been able to be contacted for a date within x days of meeting her (maybe 3 or 4).
It would have been better if the flowchart was posted here. Use a flowchart software to draw flowchart diagrams.
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