Had a day 2 last night with a black chick with a tongue ring and a monroe piercing. she is a shot girl and bud light promo girl. pretty standard day 2 with f close.
ran her through the typical structure of my day 2:
1. have her come to my house because there's a margherita place a block away that we can walk to
2. show her the tour of my house but only stay for above 5 minutes (so the girl is comfortable coming back
3. walk to the margherita place
4. get a couple drinks each and sometimes some light food
5. tell her about my life and find out about hers (david deangelo's "be interested and interesting")
6. make statements of sexual intent when possible. this can be twisting statements she makes into something sexual or it can be letting the conversation take the path like "ooo look at what you're doing to that straw" or "you look like the kind of girl that likes her hair pulled during sex". these statements don't come out of nowhere (that'd be weird/creepy for the girl) but when opportunities come up i will make them. if the girl reacts positively i'll push it further (again, not to a creepy level). if she reacts negatively i'll emphasize it was a joke and laugh it off and cut that thread. i like to get her complying with these statements of sexual intent so there are less barriers to cross once we're back home.
7. After about an hour i say let's get out of here and i ask for the check. I used to split the bill with them but now i just ask them to pay for the tip. bill is usually around 35-40 but thats covering my dinner too and getting us both pretty tipsy so whatever.
8. on the walk back i always hold hands and/or link arms.
9. as we are passing around the corner to go back to my house (and out of sight of most of the people around that area) i push her up against this brick wall (same spot every time) and start making out with her. i am the one that stops it rather than letting her stop it. then continue walking back home and holding hands.
10. once home i'll offer her a drink and say "let's go hang out on my roofdeck (balcony)" which is just outside my bedroom
11. i'll put some music on in my room and get into the making out out on the roofdeck or right in my room then get her onto the bed.
12. i tell them a lot of times that i like to be teased all around my upper legs and i'll take my belt off and undo my pants so they have easier access. so they're basically rubbing their hand all around my dick but not touching it (although my boner is hitting the back of their hands). i tell them to keep going and tell them how good it feels.
13. meanwhile i'll be rubbing the inside of her thighs and hitting her clit with the back of my hand. eventually she gets horny enough that she starts grabbing my dick so then i undo her pants and go to fingering and playing with her clit. i get the rest of our clothes off as i turn her on more and more with fingering/clit play and i have the condom on hand from my pants pocket.
14. usually we start fucking right here and i fuck her in a whole bunch of positions
15. if she resists i'll turn her on a bit more maybe by going down on her or fingering her some more. usually she gets horny enough to want to fuck.
16. if she says that it's too soon because she just met me and she never does things like this, i say that i never do either but i felt such a special connection at dinner with her and i say, "i know we're going to start having sex all the time so we may as well see how good it is now". i will also talk her through buyer's remorse (to pre-empt it) by saying i can understand that she doesn't want to feel slutty about giving it up too soon but (A) she's CLEARLY not a slut since she doesn't usually do that and (B) this isn't just some cheap one-night stand where she won't see me again. this is what i call importing comfort and security on credit ;)
17. i fuck them in tons of positions and give them tons of orgasms then make them finish me with a blowjob.
they usually tell me it's the best sex they've ever had and blah blah blah blah. aka they'll be back for more.
this day 2 structure works very very well for me. sometimes i run into a girl that has a rule about not kissing on a first date or just really doesn't want to fuck yet. if i can sense that pushing hard for a fuck is going to make her go cold, i will tell her that "i really respect that about her and that if she had wanted to have sex with me on the first date that i would have seen her as a slut and not called her any more. (basically just reinforcing her principles for her). but then i'll push hard on the day 3 to fuck.
have 2 stunner models coming over today (afternoon slot and night slot). pretty pumped.
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