So last night I went out with this 5'10 Croatian chick who studied pre-med. She works out 4 hours a day so she's got a pretty sexy body and super alluring eyes. As we got into talking during the date, I found out that she's really into and knowledgeable about some of my favorite topics -- philosophy, technological progress (specifically, the technological singularity), nanotechnology, cognitive science, neuroscience, and psychology. So we actually had an amazing intellectual conversation full of substance. She commented on the fact that she has noticed that most American girls aren't into intellectual things (I fully agree). We hypothesized that this could be due, in part, to the fact that being smart isn't "cool" in America. There are negative social repercussions to engaging in intellectual or "nerdy" things. I saw this firsthand in 9th grade when the hot girls dropped out of Orchestra (I played the violin) and Math League. They hung out with the kids who skipped class and underachieved. Sad. When I was living in England I met plenty of very attractive intellectual girls and was very shocked. Different cultures, different attitudes. Anyways, we had a great conversation, I did my pound her against the wall makeout shit on the walk back. She came back up to my room when we got back. Lots of heavy making out but she was very resistant to going any further. So what, she's not a slut. One thing that made me feel slightly bad (and I rarely feel bad) was that she kept telling me how I didn't seem like an asshole like all the other guys she dates who "just want her for her body". I added to her wrong hypothesis and strengthened the dichotomy further by telling her that I was really into her because of her mind.....partially true ;) Little does she know...lol
She had to be back to pick up her mom (she lives a half hour away and I had picked her up because she didn't have the car for that particular night). She promised me if we left that she'd "reward me" in the car. I took this to mean a handjob and i was right. She got right to it in the car. I pulled it out after a little bit despite her objections and made her jerk me off the whole way home while i felt her tits up. Then I made her finish me (i took off my shirt to catch the jizz) shortly before I dropped her off. She told me that she wants to come back on Sunday and go in my Jacuzzi with me (the one in my bathroom -- not the hot tub in the basement). I told her that we'd get a bottle of wine and light the candles around the jacuzzi and talk philosophy and science. She's going to read a book she borrowed from me between now and Sunday called Synaptic Self. This book was super interesting and paints a picture that our "soul" or "self" is just an illusion and "we" are currently our current synaptic configuration which is altered constantly by experience and constrained by genetics. Anyways...I'll probably F-close on Sunday....but if not, whatever. I actually really enjoy talking with this girl and I'm willing to wait if she's not ready to fuck me on Sunday. She already showed buyer's remorse from the handjob. I texted her after the date saying, "did you enjoy getting me all worked up in the car?". She said "yes and no lol. i don't like going that far that soon". This is fine. It's not all about the super quick lay. Some girls just genuinely aren't whores and LMR busting tactics sometimes just WONT work.....and if they do you're going to make the girl feel horrible about herself and ruin the whole interaction (and all potential for future sex). I explained to her that what she was feeling was cognitive dissonance (which is what buyer's remorse is after all) and that she doesn't want to think of herself as a slut. I told her the good thing is that she's clearly NOT a slut and therefore doesn't need to feel bad. I told her, furthermore, that she would be seeing me many more times so she'll get the comfort built up that she needs and that it's all good. This made her happy. It's good to be real and straight up with a chick. Lots of chicks say they feel really comfortable around me. It's because I'm real with them.
After the day 2 I met up with Jake and Zach, my favorite spears. haaha. We were going to sarge University City which is uncharted territory for me but something interesting happened. I got a text from a girl I hooked up with about a year ago but never F-closed that had went cold into the dead zone. She was in Philly with 2 girls and was looking for a cool place to go. Since me and the Spears bros made 3 also, we met up with them. Just before going out, I got hit up by the girl from my 2nd day 2 the other night (mentioned in this post of mine). She was still in town from Atlantic City. --FUCK...my day 2 for 7 pm just arrived just now and is waiting outside my house. I will continue this post in a separate post as soon as I can.
To be continued......
PS - #118 turned out to be the Atlantic City girl....closed it out on what was basically a day 3. She said she had never had a one night stand before so i told her she must come back much more for repeats. She agreed.
oh, and also very pumped to sarge with Rob tonight in center city..hes been away for funerals and other shit.
PSS - i've fucked 5 girls in the past 7 days. if this day 2 goes off tonight, it could be 6 for 8
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