so after my meetings in north carolina today i went to meet a friend from high school for dinner. i saw on google maps that there was a massage place nearby where i was meeting him for dinner. so i set it up to get a full body massage from a woman (told them a guy doing it would make me uncomfortable). i said my problem areas were my upper thighs and my chest. the girl worked my whole body really good while naked for 1 hour and it was only $50. she was an 8 so it was pretty arousing. i had to sign a thing saying sexual advances of innuendos could terminate the massage so i walked the tightrope and got her to flirt and get real into the massage but didn't get any dick play. i tried to see if she was down to meet out later but she was fairly professional and serious about the massage shit. it felt awesome and it was a tough one to make go down so i went home and beat it haha. def was worth a try.
my friend bill, a PUA from philly, told me that he knows a PUA in raleigh (where i currently am on business) named brennan. i met up with that dude tonight. he's real smart and had some really crucial insights into the game. we traded a bunch of stories and pickup knowledge at hooters and i gamed up our waitress. she was a 9 with fake tits and a nice ass. i came in from the angle about what fun shit is going on tonight, i'm here on busines..blah blah. she said there was salsa dancing across the street. i asked her to be my partner when she got off and that it'd be a fun adventure. she tried objections of having to go to bed early and of not having any clothes to change into -- both of which i overcame. i got her to agree mostly by keeping the frame solid and crushing her objections. i focused on having her convince me that she was a good salsa dancer (by demonstrating), affirming that she would still be able to perform her dance moves well if she was the center of attention in the middle of the dancefloor while sober, etc. she agreed to come with me when she got out of work and i told her that we were gonna have an awesome spontaneous night. i also # closed her at this time.
then something strange happened with my game -- something that i have come to realize as a sticking point. i started "IOI pinging" -- basically re-engaging her from a needy rapport-seeking frame trying to extract IOI's from her so i could feel good emotions and know that it was still "on" as time passed. i had to kill 1.5 hours before we were gonna go salsa dance. these IOI ping and rapport-seeking attempts didn't do me much good and started to sour the set. brennan told me that the girl was real into me and that i dont need to act like i am digging out of a hole...and to just keep up the not giving a fuck attitude. i came up with an analogy for my problem...imagine if you were fishing.....the bait is in the water....at that point you aren't too dead set on catching any particular fish..it's just kind of like..whatever..who gives a shit. but then when you get a nibble and you have the fish hooked and it seems likely that you're going to get the fish --- thats when you get excited. i sometimes switch into terrible game and start chasing them and trying to force things to work out once they show a bunch of interest. here i have this 9 eating out of my hand and giving me her # and agreeing to meet up with me. my stupid OCD and negativity make me start reaching out trying to figure out if i still have her and if it's on and shit. so dumb. i do this with texting sometimes too. cant wait for saturday! wont saturday be awesome! etc etc etc. going to figure out how to fix this later.
towards the end of the night i realized the place across the street wasn't open and i told her she had to pick a different place and that i'd meet her there. she said she we should just meet the following night since tuesday nights blow. she asked if i'd still be in town. i told her i would and she said she worked til 7. i'm gonna use the jeffy text sequence to try and get a day 2 set up for 730 and then try and pull back to my hotel. brennan noted that she invested a lot in me. once i thought i had fucked up a bit with the IOI pinging i wasn't happy with myself and therefore started becoming real indifferent again. this in turn caused her to sit down with us a bunch of times, seek our attention, seek our approval, etc. i responded with dropping a lie about dating a maxim model, talking about her fake tits, busting on her, etc. left on a pretty good note.
brennan and i are going to try and work some things out in my time in raleigh such as:
-what makes up that super powerful monstrous state
-how can we always be in state and not have to rely on social momentum or anything else
-what really is "comfort"? brennan suggests it's a whole bunch of different emotions and conditions (time, security, trust, knowing you'll have sex with them, knowing others wont find out, etc etc). we want to figure out how to dial emotions of a girl so she's ripe for pulling. we think this is independent of time (i.e., you dont need to invest a certain amount of time or "comfort-building" to get a pull and follow-on sexual relationship)
i'm fucking tired and have to be up early so thats all for now. excited to see what this week brings. brennan said he can tell i'm really good just from the one pickup i did in front of him. he said i have this look in my eyes when i'm in set that he's seen in other top PUA's. he calls it hypnotic and says that the only other people that have it are psychopaths lol.
oh and 19 year old model stripper says shes going to book her flight tomorrow to come visit me in NC. operation steal virginity commence.
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