Fuck closed #144

So Jake introduced me to a pretty pimp spot for Tuesday nights in Philly. I usually haven't found good spots for the weekdays. I closed 5 girls and had a few makeouts. We had a bunch of pulling options at the end but i ended up making out with a friend of a girl jake pulled. helped jake pull his one through answering all the objections julien style. the one that i ended up fucking i just held her hand, then got into making out, then put her hand on my dick over my pants on the street. once we got back to jake's place i took her straight upstairs by the hand for the "tour of the house" and madeout with her on zach's bed. ran into a bunch of LMR but ended up blasting through it and blasting her pussy. she was really tight too.

Fuck closed #143

So this pull was pretty sick actually. It went down in like 5 minutes. I approached, was direct..flirty. Told her we should go get drinks at my place and that I lived real close by. She said she was with her friends and couldn't leave them. I told her that we'd come right back and they wouldn't even notice. They didn't want her going anywhere. The way I got her out was by telling her that i wanted her to meet my friends who were right by the door and that we'd come right back. then i just had her get in a cab. when her friends were calling her in the cab i took her phone and was like no it's cool we'll be back shortly -- [cut thread] -- so anywayss [new thread]. i had never tried the piecemeal approach with pulling to just get them near the door or outside but it worked real well. the friends def would not have let her go.

she dated a philadelphia eagles football player for 8 months and just got out of that relationship recently. she has a full scholarship in law school. from miami. fake D's. boom. she wanted a ride home but i made her take the subway. sorry bitch. see you next time.

Fuck closed #142

 
this girl was a girl who shit tested me for an hour, i showed her that i had like 15 britneys in my phone after she said that's what her name was, she stored me in her phone as "loser [venue name]". we've been text flirting/bantering for a couple weeks and we had a day 2 where she blew me. there was a lot of chemistry and sexual vibe on the day 2. she is a sexy italian chick and will be my new main chick. she knows i'm seeing other girls but we're going to have a pure fuckbuddy relationship and not talk about anybody else we're seeing to each other.

Fuck closed #137

Went out on a Tuesday night. Ended up at a pizza place. Gamed the cute cashier at like 3:30 AM. Was in state and fuckin handled business. She told me that she liked how confident and cocky and forward I was. I passed the shit tests and made a bunch of intent statements. day 2's her for drinks the next day..brought her back to the house and banged her..then took her out to a club. brought her back home after that and banged her again. rotation potential.

4 fuck closes in 24 - #138, 139, 140, 141

So i just had a personal record of fucking 4 new girls in 24 hours.

1. bar pull to another bar then back to my place. hit heavy LMR and couldn't crack it. she slept over. worked on busting the LMR the whole next day and cracked it around dinnertime.
2. went out that night and pulled from club back to my place. this pull involved isolating a girl from her friends, making out with her, then telling her i lived a block away (was really like 4..took a cab). she said what about the friends and i said oh don't worry they won't notice you're gone and i'll have you back before the bar closes. (had just watched this awesome julien vid before going out and did exactly what he taught...worked like a charm). i answered her objections, set forth the urgency, and the pull happened within like 15 mins of meeting. Here's the Julien video on same night lays: www.rsdnation.com/julien/blog/2-new-vids-definitive-guide-sleeping-girls-same-night-may-be-too-advanced-you
3. went BACK out at 2 am after fucking girl in #2. within 5 minutes i saw a hot blonde on the street. she was headed home but convinced her to come to an afterclub with me. this girl is an easy 8.5 - 9 but i called her a 7 as a neg (btw i almost never use negs any more but it seemed like the right move at the time). this really stuck in her head and she brought it up all night. pulled her to a diner but she was didn't end up coming in because she was super sleepy and had to go home. next morning i get a text, "7, really?". she said she could use breakfast now that she was more awake. so i said, "rendezvous?". she asked where and what. i said i was still in bed and needed a cuddle buddy but that i'd be down for breakfast also. she asked if i would cook it for her. i agreed but told her that the cuddling better be epic. this also put her into my house instead of a brunch venue. i picked her up and we got some breakfast food from the grocery store and some champagne for mimosas. i feel like all these venue changes were good to build comfort (street -> club -> diner (even tho she left) -> grocery store -> liquor store -> my place). i flirted but kept things cool while making breakfast. definitely led a lot and told her to make the drinks and do various things in the kitchen to help with breakfast. we ate a banging brunch while sipping champagne. ended up making out on and off while finishing the food. i was also letting her think she was winning me over. i say stuff lately to girls like "you're actually a cool chick, i like it". because it has that little dig in there that you thought she was lame originally. by the same token i told her that she looked like an 8 now that she was cleaned up a bit. she actually looked pretty hot in tight yoga pants. took her upstairs and got into escalation and she said "we can't have sex since we just met". my standard reply now is always like, i agree, no sex (has to be said congruently). i give a little canned backstory by saying, i never sleep with girls that i meet right away...it's a big turnoff when girls want to do that. we got into more escalation again and i was eating her out and again she said, no sex. i was like, yep no sex. ended up banging. i did my "import comfort on credit thing". i told her that i can tell we're going to be hanging out all the time because of the special connection and chemistry we have...so it doesn't matter if we have sex right now. i tell her that i want to make an exception to my rule and it's ok because "neither of us ever have sex with people this soon...it's not who i am and i can tell it's not who you are". hahaha. assertions work wonderfully with women. I CAN JUST TELL GIRL! she reads that as, oh, i'm not a slut..this doesn't count..and we'll be hanging out a bunch more so it's ok. plus the explicit "no sex" is like a delusion. and then oops, just happened! def going onto my rotation. have plans for round 2 this week.
4. so to complete my tour de france on this 4th pussy, this was actually a day 2 with a girl i had been bantering with for a couple weeks. it was already settled over all the flirty and sexual banter that she was gonna get her brains banged out. didn't even need to take her out on a date. minor problem is she arrived while i was fucking girl #3. i have a gate to get into where i live so she couldn't get in. my standard tactic in these situations is to say, "i'm not home currently but will be in 20 minutes, meet me at [intersection] which is like 5 blocks from where i live. this gets them away from the house so i can get the other girl out of there. so i get out #3 and then tell #4 then have #4 come back to my house with the excuse that i don't need to go to that intersection any more. lol..makes no sense..but does the job. they don't even ask what that shit is about haha. so smash #4 on and off for 5 hours completing the cycle.

i also pulled on Tuesday with fuck close and I am going to fuck a new main fuckbuddy for the first time (all already set up over text banter) in 1 hour. that'll make 6 new ones for the week.

now the reason i attribute a lot of this success to RSD is because my laycount has gone up almost 50% in the past 5 months after taking an RSD bootcamp. i was at 103 lays very end of June when I took bootcamp with Tyler and Todd. I knew nothing about RSD principles at that time. i now feel like i have a rich and deep understanding of them. the girl in 1 hour will be lay #142. my game really started skyrocketing after i took bootcamp. Since then, I was an instructor assistant with Jeffy for 1 bootcamp and now I am Todd's new instructor assistant for 6 months, teaching all his bootcamps with him during that period of time. i saw big noticable jumps after teaching with Jeffy and more noticable jumps after teaching with Todd. Big things just click during these programs. My success is getting exponentially better. I have another post where I talk about fuck closes being exponential: www.rsdnation.com/node/245458. The lays graph i last plotted can be seen here: i47.tinypic.com/2qaivl2.jpg. Look at what has happened since doing RSD stuff. and my 134 has jumped to 142 in 2 weeks.

the point of all this is to push yourself and the success will pour in. i'm still actively tightening up many areas of my game and i have a long way to go. i'm never content with where i'm at. i still have many areas where i can improve and this is all so fucking exciting and fun.

5 solid closes on stunners annnnd getting punched in the face

I was in the zone last night. closed stunner after stunner. the 5th one i pulled to a diner and built comfort and shit. she wouldn't pull home because her friends were freaking out about her leaving and wanted to come find her. i was super drunk so i'm not even sure what i said to this chick hah. pissed off a girl that's on my rotation because she saw me closing stunners and saw me pull the mega hottie blonde. oh well. that girl was pissing me off anyways.

ohhh and i got punched in the face by a girl i had a one night stand with because she was talking to me and i was being rude to her and telling her to fuck off.

par for the course.

expecting some decent day 2's next week from these number closes. going to NYC fri-sun to teach bootcamp with todd.

Fuck closed #136 - after 6 or 7 dates lol

So this chick took a lot of effort. She's a sweetheart though and we have good times together. she didn't want to jump into anything sexual right away. we had a whole series of dates and finally banged. polish chick from poland. the sex was awesome. she has firm D tits and is a good time (both sexually and non-sexually).

one flaw: she doesn't take jizz in the mouth. whaaaaaaaat're ya gonna do.

Fuck closed #135 off a day game pull in NYC - first daygame pull

So i was in NYC this past weekend assisting Todd with the NYC regional conference. I hung out on Sunday with this dude from the topbeasts forums. We decided to give daygame a try. neither of us have much experience with daygame but he just cracked open a few sets that went so so. then we hit up this 3 set that appeared to be going into a bar. the topbeasts dude, garrett, opened pretty direct and told one of the girls he thinks she is cute. i told the girls we were looking for somewhere to get food and drinks and they said to come into the bar that was right there with them. i started kino'ing my chick and giving her the heavy eye contact. i got in good with her and she asked me if i wanted to have a cuddle party after we left there. i used role reversal and she she kept telling me i was so hot and all this shit. she shit tested me a bunch but i passed all of that with ease. we got into making out right at the bar. i won over the 2 friends and she eventually told the 2 friends to leave her there with me. then she started putting up some resistance when it was time to go so i used jealousy from a 3 set that garrett had went and opened in the same bar after he blew out with his girl in our original set (his girl only liked dudes 40+ or some dumb shit). i told the girl i was with that it was a tough choice but that i was going to decide to come with her even though the other girls are pretty hot. grabbed a cab and picked up my car..then drove near her house and stopped in a bar where she bought me shots and drinks. got back to her house and banged her. might be a potential spot to sleep at when i'm teaching bootcamps in NYC.

that was my first daygame pull and it was pretty fucking easy. circumvents all the text bullshit trying to go for a meetup. the instant day 2 with pull back home is nice.

Updated game progression fuck close graph

check this shit out

This breaks out where I got into game and shows how good I've gotten since learning RSD. Keep in mind that the relationship sections having an incline slope do not necessarily imply fucking girls while having a girlfriend. It is simply a connection of the data points that I can remember from different events or milestones. I didn't actually cheat on any of my girlfriends but I did have threesomes with some.

Also, as you can see, shit is really starting to take the fuck off. I'm actively working on a lot of areas of game so I expect these results to continue to get better. I feel like I still have a long way to go and that's why this shit is so fucking fun. I am constantly critical of any weak areas despite banging new hot chicks all the time. If I become complacent then I'm going to plateau with skills. Fuck that.

I'd like to emphasize one more time the JOURNEY that is necessarily to get to this level. I had to suffer a lot of defeats and go out a shitload in order to finally reap lots of rewards. Enjoy the journey, stop looking for the magic pill, stop making excuses, and always think you are the FUCKING MAN no matter what. Constantly hold this mindset at all times. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and then you have empirical results to point to to back up your mindset.

I just realized I forgot to add in a 3 month LTR in fall of '06 with a French girl while living in England. But whatever, fuck it.

Fuck closed #134 - Pull from gay club. + some solid stunner closes

So that's 2 weeks in a row pulling a chick from the gay club on an off night lol. The ONLY club in philly open past 2 am Sunday-Tuesday is this gay club called voyeur. And some straight girls go there (usually with gay friends but sometimes just not to be harassed).

this chick was on from the very beginning of the open. i started dancing with her then telling her she was cute or whatever..i dont even remember. all i know is we started making out pretty fast then it was just a matter of working out logistics to get her home. easy peasy. nice double d tits for titty fucking. shes going to law school next year. she's 22 and was alarmed by the fact that i'm 29 because it's "almost 30". funny thing is i'll still be banging girls her age (and younger) for many many years.

i also had 2 very solid closes at a strip club. one was with a stripper who was recently hired. i generated a lot of compliance by just leading hard and breaking any opposing frames. i got her to sit on my lap and not put her top back on. she said she didn't think she was allowed to do that with leaving her clothes off but i told her it's fine and that girls do that all the time (not true). i cemented the "us vs. them" mentality by getting into a conversation with her about how she's a hooper and just moved to the area. i have firehooping and LED hooping connections in the city from being in the DJ scene. we set up a day 2 for friday afternoon. we did some roleplay about her wearing 7 inch stripper heels out for drinks and getting all these looks from people. she's going to come get drinks then "teach me how to hoop" lol. this will basically just be a ploy for me to escalate with her in isolation. i also kept accusing her of being attracted to me (she kept looking at my mouth) and telling her she wanted to make out with me. i got in a bunch of intent statements so that it's man-woman frame. lookin promising.

the other close was on a cocktail waitress at the strip club. again i used the "us vs them" by telling her that i respect her working amongst a "sea of whores". I was like, let me guess, you're in college..unlike THESE girls hahahaha. She was like, yes! (i replied, i knew it!!!) haha. she said she was in nursing school so i made up a story about how i had an ex that put herself through med school by doing this job. i told her that she has intelligence and isn't slutty which is a big difference from all the strippers. she warmed up to me real good and then i transitioned into telling her that i throw these big house parties and want her to be a cocktail server or shotgirl there and that she'll prob make 300 or 400 (i dont have parties like this and the money was just madeup). but that didn't even seem to matter to her. she seemed pretty into me. she gave me her number and i told her we'd meet up early next week for margaritas. i re-engaged her a little later and made her come sit next to me. i asked her which day was better and she said she's super busy with work and school. i said, well then how are you going to have time to see me? She was like, "oh i'll make time ;)" and eye fucked the shit out of me. it's pretty on.

both girls were replying back to multiple texts last night. not bad for a tuesday.

Fuck closed #133

so this chick is fucking awesome. 20 year old model. had a club pull with her a couple weeks ago and she wouldn't even kiss me when we got back to my place with her friends. had a day 2 with her where i found out she's super into cognitive science, neuroscience, and intellectual shit in general. fucking jackpot. those are my main interests. killer ass also which you cant even see in this picture. she's passionate, fun, and totally awesome. gems like these are why i got in the game.

on the day 2 it took a lot of barriers and shit to cross before i got her to make out with me. there was def a bunch of resistance. i only got as far as her watching me jerk off.

on the day 3, she told me that she couldn't stop thinking about me since the day 2. we got into more making out and she was resisting again. i convinced her to sleep over saying that i'd "be good". i tried more resistance breaking shit but she wasn't having it. the whole next day i broke through LMR...got her horny, kissed her neck a lot, dry humped (lol), etc. i eventually got into jerking myself off again since she wouldn't touch it but i was sucking her nipples and grabbing her ass and kissing her neck. she got real horny and i kept whispering in her ear how i would fuck her and all this shit. she got pretty turned on and then wanted to fuck. but then she was hesitant about actually going through with it since she "doesn't really know me yet". i used my importing comfort on credit technique and told her that since we get along really well that we'd definitely be hanging out a bunch in the future. then i banged her in tons of positions and she looks so fucking sexy naked. shes coming back tomorrow to make me dinner and get her brains fucked out again. she texted after she left last night that she was in a haze for a while after she left and is really into me. she's gonna be high up in my rotation for a while..thats for sure.

I now work for Real Social Dynamics!!!

So Todd (Xaneus from the book "The Game) called me and said I'm going to be working for RSD. I am going to be his instructor assistant for 6 months. This will involve going with him on all his bootcamps and being an instructor. I also will be helping film his hotseat. I will be traveling all over the country (and sometimes the world) but will primarily involved with NYC.

This is an unpaid position but i see it as a really sick and awesome opportunity for the following reasons:
 1. Todd is an expert at daygame. This should help me get day game airtight by the end of the internship
2. Plug remaining holes and weak spots in my night game and game in general
3. Amass a lot of experience teaching bootcamps
4. Have fun/build skill by competing with Todd for girls (he has specifically said he wants to do this)
5. Todd is a senior RSD instructor that has been with RSD since the beginning. This is a great opportunity to pick his brain and learn a lot more about pickup/attitudes/etc.
6. There is a possibility of them taking me on into a more permanent position that is paid once the internship is over. My skill level has gotten ridiculous and I think they are going to be really impressed. I got a student laid 2 out of 3 nights on bootcamp when I was an instructor assistant for Jeffy in NYC. And that dude only came on program with 6 lays.

Anyways, i'm fucking stoked. My start date won't be for 2-3 months based on when Todd moves to NYC. However, i'm going to be teaching bootcamps in November in NYC with him in the meantime.

Funny that the heroes i read about in the game that i viewed as superstars are now my friends. i text and email with them and now will be teaching real social dynamics bootcamps. I am very confident that I'm going to surpass many of the RSD instructors' skill levels within the next 6 months to a year (I already have in a bunch of dimensions).

Fuck ya.

Fuck closed #132

So this one took a month of effort. I pulled and fucked girls on nights 1 and 3 of Jeffy's bootcamp in NYC. i met this #132 girl on night 2. the logistics were bad for a fuck although we did meet up after the bar and went for a walk around NYC and madeout. i kept up banter with her over text and email for the past 5 weeks and now she finally arrived by plane from nashville. fucked her 4 times already. she can deepthroat like a champ and is real good in bed. that'll be fun for the weekend then she leaves sunday afternoon.

it's funny cuz in this past week rob and i have all these crazy coincidences:
1. he pulled saturday and i pulled monday
2. we both (independently) on thursday had girls over and fucked them without even taking them on a date (wasn't planned, found out after the fact)
3. i have the girl in from nashville and he has a girl that flew in this weekend from boston to fuck
4. rob fucked a 4th girl this week (i'm only at 3) on a day 3. to complete the quadruple fucking major coincidence shit i have to close a girl on a day 3 by sunday. i have a day 3 set up actually for sunday night (also coincidentally) after nashville girl leaves. fucking crazy lol. so random. but awesome.
5. we also both smashed a new fuckbuddy this week

what a great week. i had some awesome day 2's also that didn't go all the way to fucking but were still pretty sweet.

MPUA status nekka.

Fuck closed #131 -- some freeze out stuff used

I closed an eastern european blonde czech chick on a day 2 last night. Fucked her a bunch of ways in my room and on my pool table. Didn't even take her out any where. She was supposed to be over by 8 or 9 but didn't show up til midnight so i told her that we weren't going to go on a date since she got there so late. tour of the house, ended up in my bed..she gave a bunch of token resistance. said she wasn't going to sleep with me...etc.

The TURNING POINT was telling her that i didn't give a fuck if we had sex or not and actually being CONGRUENT with that. once she believed that, she wanted to fuck. good thing i know game and didn't push back against her anti-slut defense. Always love the fucking IRONY that ONCE YOU ARE WILLING TO WALK AWAY and once you can TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, that's when they're ready to fuck. Mystery says not to fight their logical mind. Just agree that you "shouldn't be doing this" or whatever. I did some freezeout stuff too. I'd escalate with her and when she'd push i'd put my clothes on and be like ok let's go to the club and act non-butthurt. i kept making her think she was ruining the fun sexual energy because she def wanted to fuck...she just wanted plausible deniability and not to feel slutty about it. there ya go honey. wham bam smash. def seems like it'll be a repeat fuck. she was already talking about "next time" and blah blah. i told her that i'll take her on a real date next time which will probably amount to half-priced margaritas at happy hour hahah.

i also had a day 2 with a hired gun stunner before i fucked the czech bitch. this other girl, liz, was fucking awesome. shes going to med school next year. right now she works as a shot girl and dances on the bar at this country bar place. super sexy. half indian, half italian. real piercing eyes and sexy skin color..nice tits..nice smile..etc. she also lives like 2 blocks away from me. the date went fucking awesome but she rejected my kiss on the way home. shes into electronic music so i got her to come in my place after the date to teach her how to dj. i built more comfort there and then she let me makeout with her but she was still giving some token resistance to it. i think  i might have pushed for too much making out throughout the hangout back at my house. even when she was leaving i was trying to kiss her one more time and she didn't want me to so i used the trick of having her kiss my cheek then turning my head to kiss her. i need to stop pushing the girls so hard as to not give off a creepy or try-hard vibe. having some drinks in my system doesn't always make this easy.

bottom line: i've ruined some day 2's by being too pushy/persistent in a slightly drunk/try-hard way with girls that aren't completely receptive yet to getting all sexual. i think this kills my power and makes them feel that i am too aggressive....which can leave a bad taste in their mouths for the next hangout.

lesson: escalate and push but treat the physical stuff as no big deal if it is anything more than token resistance. this will be a judgement call read. the purpose in these situations should be to continue the interaction on a day 3 rather than blowing it out just to get some stupid making out in on the day 2. i had a lot of good value and an awesome vibe with her during the date at the bar (and this is usually the case also with the day 2's i've ruined by being too aggressive -- that is, the date at the bar goes awesome then i'm too pushy with sexual stuff after and some girls just aren't receptive to that right away). it becomes a power shift because now she has a bad taste in her mouth and you're grovelling for that next hangout even though she may have some bad emotions or lower value associated with you.

applying this lesson to the liz date last night, i think it would have been best to get the kiss in but then respect her boundaries and not keep pushing for it and just play it cool. i also don't have to get a "kiss goodbye"..like who gives a shit. the point is to make her feel comfortable and to have fun and show her that nothing is a big deal to me. if i'm constantly pushing for something she isn't ready for then shes going to get annoyed and it's going to look like it's a big deal to me (and also, that i'm only after one thing).

anyways, the double day 2's with the stunners last night was fun..one resulted in the f close and the other i will probably see again. i also had a german fuck buddy over around 3:45 last night banged her brains out...consequently not getting much sleep. i have a day 2 in one hour now with a hot italian college chick. then this girl from nashville is flying in to philly. i madeout with her during the jeffy bootcamp i co-instructed and have been keeping up texts and emails with her for about 5-6 weeks. shes FINALLY coming to visit and i can fuck this bitch and not have to deal with the daily texting with her lol.

i told a lot of girls in the mix that i haven't day 2'd yet that i have "friends in town thru sunday" and will be hitting up a whole list of them on sunday to arrange dates for next week (since i cant sarge this weekend due to nashville girl cockblock). the nashville girl should be fun. she's a blonde with a southern accent. i'll beat that puss up for a few days then send her back off home haha.

Fuck closed #130...bar/club pull

Loving pulling on off-nights. This was a Monday night pull. Met this chick at a gay bar -- yes, I do enjoy hitting the gay bars on off nights sometimes because the straight girls aren't getting hit up by ANYONE and their guards are down cuz it's a bunch of "safe" non-creepy fags. they don't even know if you're gay or bi when you come in so a lot of their defenses are down.

Anyways, meet this 8.5 chick...she just got out of a 3 year relationship. She's with one other person -- her gay dude best friend. Move her from within the venue to meet Bill who was winging me. We move them to an afterclub after a bit (they had to conference and talk about it). I was planting statements of intent and shit and already working the logistics saying that they should "come to my place for drinks later". At the afterhours gay club we get all hot and heavy with the dancing and makeout the entire time. I actually went nasty style and discretely fingered her and had her hand in my pants on the dancefloor (wasn't too blatant at least lol). We convince her and her gay guy friend to come back since I only lived "a couple blocks away" (total lie...we were about 15 blocks from my house). They decide to come. In the car i take my dick out in the backseat and shes jerking me off while i finger her. I whisper to her that i want to fuck her so bad while i finger her. She's totally down.

We get back and i give a tour of my place. After we got to my room bill took the gay guy away and her and i start making out. she says that she doesn't want to ditch her friend yet but that we'll come back up to my room. i try to escalate at this point anyways because i didn't want to lose the opportunity. she stops me so we go and bullshit around with bill and the gay dude. have some drinks..shoot the shit...like 20 mins goes by and i start worrying i'm gonna lose her. so i tell the gay dude i'm borrowing her for a bit and just take her by the hand and go upstairs.

fuck her brains out. awesome fuck. bust in her mouth. fucked her 2 more times throughout the night. she stayed over cuz gayboy passed out downstairs. ok i have a date with the girl i like the most right now and she just got here so this post is done.

ps - i hear back from RSD within the next couple days about being hired or not!

Interviewed with Real Social Dynamics

Interview went pretty fuckin good. I would be an instructor assistant with Todd (Xaneus from "The Game"). For 6 months, my two roles would be:
1. Teach all his bootcamps with him
2. Film his (partially daygame) hotseat

I should be hearing back from RSD in the next few days. I think the interview went really well so I'm pretty pumped to hear back.

This would be a great opportunity to learn daygame inside out from Todd as well as patch up weak spots in game in general and have a blast. This also could be a gateway into being a full-fledged RSD instructor at some point down the road.

Pretty pumped to hear back.

Fuck closed #129 and had a few solid closes

Joint bday party out for me and Rob's bday. got locked into a set for a while but made it real solid. had another pretty solid set. both will almost surely turn into day 2's. madeout with a chick, pulled her and banged her. closed a couple others but not too many details to report as i was locked into one set for a lot of the time.

FIELD REPORT: 11 numbers, 3 makeouts, and a pull. Fucking BEASTED it tonight on a Thursday.

I'm currently on a work meeting bored as fuck on about 2.5 hours of sleep. I need to chronicle my adventures from last night. It was epic. I am getting really fucking good. So I was supposed to have a day 2 last night. I ended up getting a call scheduled with China from 9 pm - midnight. Since this meeting was scheduled, I cancelled my day 2. I have to go out shortly so here's the summarized details:

# close 1: hired gun bartender/shot girl. She was pouring shots into dudes' mouths. i motioned for her to come down. the first few times i motioned for her to come down she poured shots in my mouth lol. the fourth time i motioned that i wanted to talk to her and refused the shot. i was able to say something to her real quick...that i wanted her to talk to me when she was done up there about being a shot girl for one of my parties. this is a trick i commonly use on hired guns when they don't have much time to talk to you due to job responsibilities and shit. # closed her when she came down and said we'll hang out soon to talk details.

# close 2: this was a little hottie wearing an all-leather outfit. a little bit into the set she said that she had a boyfriend but that she could still dance with me. she was giving a lot of IOI's and jamming her crotch into my dick. it seemed pretty on so i asked for her #. she said she doesn't give her # out. i said that i don't give mine out either so we had a problem. i tried a bunch of other techniques to get her # but she wouldn't give it. so i took her phone and put my # in and then i called my # from her phone while pretending to not remember the last digit of my phone number (i lied and said i had just gotten a new #). this was just to cause a delay so she wouldn't steal her phone back and catch on to what i was doing. as soon i felt it ring i ended the call and gave her phone back. she texted back later that night that she still has a boyfriend "lol" and i told her that it's ok because i have a gf and we can still be best buddies. gonna try and get a meetup with this cutie.

#close 3: ian and i were about to leave the first bar we were at but there was this really hot girl in a cindarella outfit. i hadn't gotten a chance to open her and she was sitting by herself in a booth while we were walking out. i talked to her for like 2 minutes and got anime eyes and got into passionate making out then # close. turns out shes only in town for a couple days and is visiting from new hampshire. she said to meet her out on saturday night (night before she goes back home) at the roxxy which is a club about half a block from my house. unfortunately i'll be out for mine and rob's birthday celebration on saturday night.

#close 4: we quickly went to the bar next store before going to the main club we were supposed to go to. i # closed a cute girl in a little red riding hood outfit. she works at a shoe store and we joked about how my shoes were falling apart. she was texting me all day today (the day after meeting her). pretty likely that i'll get a day 2 out of this one.

#close 5: we get to the main club and i came in on a hot blonde who i # closed and who agreed to come back to my place after the club so she could play with my dj equipment. shes an aspiring dj. i kept up banter with her all night on and off along with dancing but i think she saw me close other girls. despite that, she still wanted to come back at the end of the night but her friend wasn't really feeling ian and she was even saying at 3:30 am that she was going to come back but it ultimately fell through. this probably has decent odds of another meetup.

#close 6: hot little dancer that had been dancing on a platform. i did the whole marriage roleplay with this chick and was lifting her up and spinning her and shit. we have a day 2 set for tuesday night. she was texting me to come back after i had walked away from her in the venue. she was giving me tons of interest. turns out she has a kid. but she has awesome cleavage and a rocking body. girls with kids are usually pretty dtf because they don't get to go out much or have much of a life. i know this from experience. she saw me dancing with #7 girl and she got all jealous and i told her that girl was just a promoter for my shows. got a little making out in here.

# close 7: this chick was friends with this hot blonde ian knew. i just led real hard and started making out intensely with her. was going around dancing with her and shit. i semi-blew this out after a bunch of making out and dancing by saying a daring line: "i bet you're a wild fuck" or something like that. this caused her to eject and go find her friends. i found her later but i might have fucked that one up by saying a reaction-seeking line. it's awesome that i can see exactly where i go wrong when i go wrong now. i will try to salvage this but we'll see.

# close 8: this chick had a fat friend that i had ian reluctantly block. she was a blonde with a cheetah bra hanging out. we were dancing and having fun then she ran into an ex or a dude she's involved with or something and he grabbed her and stole her away. it def wasn't her bf. she texted me throughout the night later on so i think it's still all good for a meetup.

# close 9: super super hot blonde that normally i would have been way too intimidated to approach. close to a 10. i had a lot of momentum and alpha built at this point of the night. i grabbed onto her tight midsection and she loved it. she texted back a bunch last night and i was saying intent statements. she said she owns a company. she said she doesn't have much free time since shes busy with the dancing company blah blah. i told her that i'd ease her stress and make her forget all about that shit ;) she was like, i'm sure you could!! ;) this would be an epic fuck

#close 10: this was an advanced move. this girl was in the back of the VIP. i opened some random 8 and had her go get the near-10 from the back wall and bring her to the front of the VIP since i couldn't get into the VIP. i told the girl i wanted to hire her to dance at one of my events and she said shes not a dancer. i told her i wanted to see her next week anyways. it was a short set and i # closed but we'll see what happens.

# close 11: since the original blonde in the white shirt that wanted to come play with my dj shit didn't come through, ian and i were grasping at straws outside the club. there was one really cute girl and i just owned the interaction and got her, her female friend, and a male friend to pull back to my house. i isolated her to my roofdeck and tried to kiss her but she refused. she's texting me today though and she's super into cognitive science. she said she'd go out with me on wednesday.

all in all a stellar fucking night and tons of adventure. i love just owning the clubs. leading different girls around by the hand. arms around 2 girls at once. # closing near-10's. having multiple pull opportunities and makeouts, etc. and to think i almost went on a day 2 with an 8 instead. ok i'm out.

Fuck closed #128 using hard sexual intent

This was a social experiment with my approach to this girl. I came in hard. This douchebag kid I know introduced me to this girl (he had just met her) at a club on Saturday. I opened with, "Hey, when are we having sex!?" It was said from a very amusing frame. She laughed and I followed up with, "I hope you're good at sex, are you?" She laughed again and replied, "Of course, look at this body" (she's a hot blonde). I then asked her what she was doing Wednesday and if she liked Margheritas (set up logistics). I didn't say a whole lot else to her besides tool out the douchebag I knew and tell her that he's a loser. She said she can tell he is and doesn't know why she was talking to him. It was just hardcore, I'm the man, I'm going to fuck you frame. Number closed, followed up with a text that night...shot her a couple more flirty texts (congruence) before the date and then had an awesome day 2. I did a lot of role-playing and conspiracy on the date and peppered in plenty of intent statements. When we got back I got zero opposition to fucking as it was on and understood from the beginning. I fucked her twice and got head twice and we watched porn together. She's pretty smart and a really cool chick. We laughed our asses off all night. She's sleeping in my bed right now (staying the night). I asked her why she responded to me talking to her like that up front since she doesn't seem slutty and she said because it was the most interesting interaction she's ever had and she knew I was completely joking. Subcommunication. Boom. She's definitely going into the rotation.

I also brought my old 9.5 back into the rotation last night. She called me up last night suicidal. I drove over there and fucked her brains out til 7 am even though she knows I'm seeing tons of girls. But that's a story for a different post.

Definitely going to experiment more with the super over the top self-amusing statements of intent in the future. I feel like it can make the set either really on or blown out really quick but it doesn't let them sit on the fence.

Fuck closed #125, 126, 127 in Beijing with girls that don't speak English

So I've been in Beijing this past week for work travel. My subcommunication has really been put to the test since most of the girls don't speak English. I fucked 2 dimes and an 8 using NO WORDS. I also only went out ONE NIGHT (hit 2 clubs on a Saturday)

1. On this night out, I rolled up on a dime and just acted like the man. During bootcamp we had exercises where we couldn't speak for the first minute of the set. Try not speaking for ANY of the set. With someone who speaks English this could come across as weird if you NEVER said anything but it was acceptable in this case. Either way, I highly recommend running some sets with no words and seeing how receptive the girls are. It also allowed me to fine tune my subcommunication (which is already stellar) even further. It's like how since deaf people can't hear, they're more attune to the other shit going on with their other senses. So i start dancing with this chick and giving her the icy eyes and just being the man. I number closed 8 girls this night...all with no words. I would just make a gesture with my thumb like typing into an imaginary phone and I would take out a pen and paper. Keep in mind that in China, (and this is according to my colleagues who live here), girls rarely have one night stands or date multiple guys, or do random hookups. They're all about boyfriend/girlfriend bullshit. So i had the deck stacked against me. One of the girls spoke poor English that was in the group with the dime. I set up logistics with her. I showed her my hotel card and typed drinks out on her phone and pointed at her dime friend. the girl typed back that her friend wants to come with me but that she is afraid because she doesn't know me. that's another chinese thing...they like to travel in groups when seeing a guy that is a stranger for safety reasons. i said fuck it and let them all come along. i won over the whole group with different fun body language and being silly/ridiculous (self-amusing). like i would get in pictures with them and make funny faces and do stupid dancing and whatever the fuck i wanted.

i makeout with the dime in the car while her sister sits right next to her hahah. we get back to the hotel room, i isolate the dime to the bathroom and fuck her brains out while the friends wait in the other room. i had my chinese colleague arrange a "send off" for me with this chick tomorrow morning (wednesday morning, beijing is 12 hours ahead of US eastern time). the girl had wanted to meet in public but i had him lie to her over text and tell her that i have to go straight from hotel to airport and for her to come to hotel in the morning...she agreed. she also gave me a sweet chinese necklace lol.


2. now for the 8. this girl was working at a shop. i just eye fucked her a bunch and did a lot of body language flirting. then i bit my lip and pointed at her and then me. basically saying, i want to fuck you without saying jack shit. then i held my hands out like, what do you say. she gave some token resistance (non-verbal) and i kept up persistence and building compliance. when i got her to agree i gave her a paper with my hotel address on it and wrote down my room number. i pointed at my watch and made a motion like when are you done. she said 2 am. i pointed at the 2 on my watch then pointed to the hotel address then raised my eyebrows and nodded (like, come here and fuck me when you get off work). she nodded and smiled. and she came. and i fucked her.


3. this 3rd girl, the other dime.. i'm very proud of. this was actually a day 2 from one of the saturday night number closes. i had my chinese colleague arrange logistics. the girl wanted to meet halfway since she was a 40 minute cab ride away. i answered that objection by telling him to text her that i would get lost in the city since i dont know chinese and to meet at my hotel bar. she wanted to bring a friend since it was a long journey and she didn't know me. i agreed hoping my chinese colleague could block the obstacle AND help translate. turns out he had dinner plans with a friend. but i had the bitches come anyways. i get my laptop with fucking google translate pulled up so that i can communicate with these bitches at least for logistics. i wanted to be able to tell them to go back up to my room in a more finessed way than with pure body language. so the dime arrives SOLO which was sweet. never found out why the friend didn't come along. we go and sit in the hotel bar at a table which is kind of in open dispaly of all the other tables. the reason that's relevant is all these people were watching us have a conversation back and forth with my google translate and an app on her phone to translate chinese into english. the subcommunication was still ruling shit. the translated shit was just aiding in showing i was confident, unreactive, so i could bust on her a little, flirt, false disqualify a little, push/pull, etc. it was hilarious because it was like running online game even though she was sitting right in front of me. most of the shit she typed was super IOI. she kept telling me i have the best personality and am so interesting and handsome and blah blah blah. i told her she is the prettiest girl i have seen in beijing and she was so flattered but shy at the same time -- so i busted on her for being shy and told her shes so lucky to have met a handsome american man. one of her messages was "how you so confident!!!! :)" hahaha. nothing against the asian males, but it's probably safe to say in general they are being hardcore chodes..so these bitches aren't used to be dominated or led. i had had a picture taken during a tour of the forbidden city of me in emperor's clothes. this was my ticket back to my room. i told her i want her to see it because it is very funny.

once back in the room i told her i wanted to kiss her. she refused and typed out "chinese girls are not so open". this was her token resistance but also culturally ingrained. no match though for my ASD busting and LMR busting tactics. thank you game. her objections were basically that she would want to see me many more times before we kissed, that if she kissed me and i am leaving soon, that she will be let down, etc. i told her that i would take time to see her many more times but that i was leaving so we had no choice. i told her i understand she is a polite lady but she needs to make an exception and have an adventure! i told her she may never ge to see me again. She was still giving me all the body language cues that it was on so i persisted (like usual). i told her in america we have something called eskimo kissing and had her do that with me. that seemed to turn her on as her breathing got heavier. then i told her (via google translate) to look me in the eyes and tell me what she feels. she replied with her translate app that she felt i was handsome. i replied, tell me how you feel in your heart. i basically just got up in her face with ultra icy eyes, eye fucking the shit out of her to an extreme degree and watched her body move up and down as her breathing increased. then i went for the makeout and she got super into it. she went for my dick pretty quickly which was surprising. i'll spare all the details but i fucked her in every position that i could possibly think of and it was probably one of the top 5 best sex sessions i've ever had. she was a solid asian dimepiece. she's coming back tomorrow tonight because i leave tomorrow. then i have the 1st dime in the morning. i basically built a mini-rotation with stunners WITHOUT SPEAKING THE FUCKING LANGUAGE. granted, i used some text shit back and forth for the 2nd dime but that was mainly for logistics and busting through resistance and setting the man-woman frame and self-amusing and blah blah. most of the attraction was in my subcommunication.

The 2nd dime wants to come visit me in America now and wants me to come back to Beijing lol. She said her birthday is in a couple weeks and is sad that i cannot "accompany her". i'll probably skype with her and have her get naked and shit. i fuckin love my life.

She typed out towards the end, "i do not mean to be rude, but i need to go home to my puppy". lol. fuck. yes. 

NYC Bootcamp detailed report. Instructing with Jeffy from RSD.

What’s up mother fuckers. Coming at you from hour 11 of my 14 hour flight to Beijing. It’s been a long day. I get to do an hour of customs bullshit and then take an hour taxi ride from the airport to my hotel. Then once I get to the hotel I have to finalize all my shit for testing tomorrow. But enough about that. Let’s crack into what I’ve been up to.

I’ll start with what I’ve been doing on the plane and work backwards. I have read the first 3 chapters in “The Power of Now” and it’s fucking awesome. I have been taking some notes and will upload those as I get more through the book. There is some really good shit in there and I highly recommend it to anyone who hasn’t read it. It is definitely going to help me immensely in dealing with emotional pain, attachment to outcomes, my OCD, and the damage from a verbally abusive childhood. I’ll get more into that shit in a different post.

I want to break down what happened this past weekend and some revelations I had. I was able to get signed up last minute as Jeffy (Jlaix) instructor assistant. Jeffy is an RSD instructor who was in the book, The Game (which was my first exposure to game). I’ve had some forum exchanges and phone calls with him regarding working large volumes of bitches and how to cut to the chase quick and get solid numbers turned into day 2’s.

It was super sick to finally get to meet him, wing with him all weekend in NYC, and help instruct his bootcamp students. It was funny because when I first met him in person he didn’t realize I was the guy from the forums and the phone call and he was super abrasive to me. He was bitching about how he heard from Tyler that I had stolen a phone number over Tyler’s shoulder. Then he went off to change his shirt. Once I arrived at this random hotel lobby which was the meeting location for students, I texted Jeffy and he said he was on the way. I told him that I was the dude from the forum and phone conversations and he was like omg I had no idea I thought you were just some chode. He was real warm and receptive once he arrived and was laughing about he had just assumed I was some fag and that he was really happy to finally meet me. He said he had wondered what I was like in the field after reading about me on the forums and having that conversation. He remained abrasive to the students however…lol. I have a bunch of notes in my phone that I can’t currently turn on so I will put those in another post. I had some key revelations from things that he told students. The students by the way were only two total. One was from Australia just in NYC for the weekend. He was at 6 lays. I will refer to him as Aussie. The other dude (Jay) said he just turned 21 recently so he isn’t used to the bar/club scene. He had banged a few girls in his social circle but that was about it. So 2 instructors (me and Jeffy) and these 2 guys.

Here is the nights breakdown:

Thursday night: Arrive at the first venue which was an outdoor beer garden. Jeffy suggests that we all get drinks. I found this funny because RSD puts out videos about “The truth about alcohol” and saying how alcohol fucks shit up. However, I’ve always been a big fan of drinking and I love gaming with some drinks in me. I do very well and I drink nearly every time. Jeffy said he drinks almost every time too. He said all that truth about alcohol shit is bs. So that was nice to see that he was drinking. Another interesting thing that he pointed out was that at the beginning of the night, he DOES NOT FEEL LIKE APPROACHING and he said that Tyler feels the same way. A good analogy is that the pool is always cold when Michael Phelps first jumps in. That’s just how it is. Sometimes I would take that beginning of night approach anxiety/hesitance personally and let it disrupt my night further. Now I am going to take it as a token thing that even the masters feel and not take it seriously at all. Jeffy said that after he gets blown out a few times then he’s good to go. He was saying how the dynamic of the crowd is different at the beginning of the night too – he said that everyone is kind of getting into the social mood and things are a bit more tame. So we did a few warmup approaches at the beer garden then bounced over to a nearby bar. At this 2^nd place, I open a set with the Aussie and it goes real well. Turns out they are Irish. Number close and say we’ll meet up with them later. Upstairs there was a bachelorette party. Before approaching that, I had a different girl giving me the eyes. I open that get flirty and shit with her. She tells me that she thinks I’m super cute and is really into me and that it’s a shame she has a bf. I # close her anyways and push to get her to makeout with me and shit. She gets really close to doing it but ultimately doesn’t because her boss was at the club with her. So onto the bachelorette party..me and Aussie worked that whole group. Jeffy meanwhile gamed up some cutie and got some kissing in with her and was moving her around the venue. I gamed up most of the girls in the bachelorette party and was carrying the bachelorette around and shit. Number closed one of the chicks…anyways let me cut to the chase. Jeffy brings his girl up and hands her off to Aussie via introduction. Aussie has some good convo with her. Seems like it’s going really well but then he comes back over to me and Jeffy. We ask him wtf he’s doing and he said he didn’t know what to do next. We sent him back in and told him to go for the makeout. So he went back in and talked a bit more and seemed hesistant to do it. We gave him some signals and he ended up making out with her pretty heavy. Then he comes back over to us again. Again, we ask him wtf he’s doing. He says that the making out was fun and he wasn’t sure what to do next again. I tell him that he should go back up to her and tell her that he wants to go outside and get some fresh air. I said if the friends object to tell them that he’s just borrowing her for a minute. I told him if that if SHE objects just get her one step closer and one step closer to the cab. Then get her in the cab. And if she objects about the friends tell her it’ll be fine and just plow it. So I go in with him and put my 2 fists out to the 4 obstacles. This was an improve move but I had them all fist-pounding me. I would focus attention dynamically on whoever seemed most attentive and/or concerned about the one friend leaving with my friend. I would use the 2 seconds dynamic banter shit so I had them all occupied. It was kind of like that game whack a mole lol. Then I did some grandiose tonality/expressiveness/body language and said I had an awesome story for them..and I sat with the group. By this time Aussie was gone with the chick. Jeffy, Jay, and I ended up bouncing to a different latenight club around 2. Jeffy and I proceeded to rip a bunch of shots and pound some beers..we were having a blast. I # closed a hottie from Uruguay but then I met this cute Irish girl who was from Dublin and going back to Dublin on Saturday. Jeffy and I were competing for her but I had gone in first so I had most of the rapport and interest from her. I blew out Jeffy by winning over the target’s best friend and then having the best friend tell Jeffy that she approves of me and not Jeffy haha. My move to get a kiss from her was to say, “Have you kissed an American guy yet while you’ve been visiting from Ireland?” That didn’t work with her so I isolated her to the dancefloor which was right nearby we had been talking. On the dancefloor I just got all up close and personal and I think (can’t remember) that I asked her to Eskimo kiss me. This is a technique Jeffy taught us. It actually works really well because it’s a smaller hoop that going straight in for the kiss. After they do the Eskimo kiss you tell them that they need to do it more gently. So I started working logistics with this Irish bitch to get her back home. I framed it that we should go somewhere after we left the bar for “drinks”. She said she had girls staying in her hotel room so that wasn’t an option. I told her we could go have drinks in my hotel lobby and shit. She asks which hotel I’m staying at. I replied that we could go outside and find the nearest hotel and that set of ASD for her and almost fucked everything up. Admittedly it did sound like a real cheap thing to say lol but I was recovered by saying that I hadn’t booked a hotel yet and I was going to have to do that anyways…so I wasn’t just booking one for us. I don’t remember how I got her away from her friends cuz I was kinda drunk but we ended up leaving the bar with the intention of getting drinks at a hotel I could find. I’m sure she knew what was really going to go down. I’m pretty sure I used intent statements like, I want to have a spontaneous adventure tonight. Oh one other funny thin to mention is that some fag tried to give me pointers and act cool by being like “Jeffy is trying to steal your girl, what are you going to do about that?” I was like, who the fuck are you? He said he was an RSD intern. I asked his lay count. He said around 20. I told him I was at 122 and knew what the fuck I was doing and to shut the fuck up. He saw me pull too..hope he had fun jerking off that night. That’s another thing Jeffy did for me – instill this kind of no bullshit attitude directed out to be fired at chodes and AMOGS and not just bitches. So I’m walking around NYC at like 4 AM trying to find a hotel. We were just asking people on the street mainly. The first 2 that came upon were all booked up and I thought this was going to blow me out but she stuck around. I just kept bantering and we were holding hands. The 3^rd hotel was a Marriott and they had a couple rooms left. We got one on the top floor (I think 20^th floor) and bought a 6 pack from the bar to take to the room. I got jammed up for like $400 between the room and beers but fuck it…I had no better pulling option. I don’t usually have to spend anything on a pull but it was bootcamp and fuck it. I was staying with friends half hour away from that bar and I hadn’t even met up with them to ge the key yet…so that wouldn’t have worked out. I had 1 condom and she had 1 condom so I was able to fuck her twice at least. We fucked all night. The 2^nd time after fucking her in a bunch of positions I titty fucked her and busted on her face. Pounded a stella artois and bounced out of the room around 8 am. Called into a work meeting for IBM from my car at like 9 am. Ahh..i love the player life. This chick had a sexy irish accent too. What a sick time. I found out the next day that Aussie got the girl back to his hotel and they were hooking up in his bed and she ended up having a bush. He couldn’t get an erection after seeing she had a bush lol. So no fuck close for him. But I basically set everything up to happen and he made things happen so I’m proud of him. He ended up pulling and fuck closing an asian girl the 2^nd night which I will get into in the next story. So that was 2 pulls in the first 2 nights from a bootcamp student that I was winging/teaching. It was an awesome feeling to watch him transform. He was at 6 lays coming in so the 2 he should have gotten on bootcamp (the 1^st one didn’t go down cuz of bush) would have increased his laycount 33% lol. Sick progress. Ok I’m about to watch Pee-Wee’s great adventure because that shit is hilarious and I have about 1.5 hours left before touching down in Beijing.

Damn…so I was up for 36 hours straight since leaving Philly before I finally got to bed in Beijing. I had a bunch of shit to do for work right when I got in and had to fight off the exhaustion for 16 hours after landing before I could finally pass out for 2 hours then go conduct testing. I also found out that the government blocks foreign sites like blogspot.com so I’m going to have to post this massive bootcamp report once I’m back in the USA next week. China sucks right now cuz everyone talks with an annoying accent, there’s tons of stupid symbols around, I stick out like a sore thumb since I’m a 6’4 white dude, and I’m fucking exhausted. But, since my Chinese counterpart is currently administering the testing since I can’t read or speak fucking Mandarin, I have some time to blog it up. So…where did I leave off. Ah yes, the 2^nd night of bootcamp.

FRIDAY: Coming off Thursday night where me and Aussie both pulled, I was in good spirits and ready to do it all over again. This time the crew (me, Jeffy, and the 2 students) went to this big outdoor roofdeck bar/club with palm trees all over and amazing views of the city. We cracked right into it and were getting socially lubricated. Before going out, Jeffy expressed to the students that that night was all about getting physical and escalating. This meant fingers weaved amongst the girl’s fingers, holding out a hand and having her do a spin, doing a lift, doing a fake waltz dance, kissing, and doing a move with putting her hands around the back of your neck. There were some SUPER KEY POINTS MADE HERE BY JEFFY that I think are going to REVOLUTIONIZE MY GAME. Namely, he expressed that these moves were ESSENTIAL so that you didn’t communicate with the girl friend-friend but rather MAN-WOMAN. He said that if you haven’t kissed a girl in the first 30 minutes of an interaction that you’re probably just spinning your wheels. THIS WAS A HUGE REALIZATION FOR ME. It had been stressed on my bootcamp in Philadelphia that the #1 mistake guys make it failing to escalate. This also ties into PLAYING TO WIN rather than playing “not to lose” (aka playing it safe). The point is to not have girls ON THE FENCE about fucking you. They should either LOVE YOU or HATE YOU and it should be a CLEAR DECISION in their mind. Jeffy warned that if you communicated friend-friend and didn’t escalate that you’d end up with a lot of times with “have a nice night” or “well it was nice meeting you.” These types of interactions are going to lead to higher probability of the woman flaking. It also will be less “on” and if you DO happen to get the friend-friend interaction girl on the day 2, the escalation on the day 2 is going to seem like more of a shock or big deal to her because you have been too much of a pussy thus far to communicate the man-woman frame. Additionally, statements of intent made on the day 2 might seem over the top or creep since you have not cemented this frame. From your initial interaction, she’s used to you being reserved, playing it safe, being a faggot, etc. She’s on the fence. Then, when you get heavy with intent or escalation on the day 2 you can get blown out for reasons such as being “too aggressive” or “creepy”. Too aggressive more often times than not means you didn’t escalate soon enough so this big change contrasts in a relativistic way. Creepy can be a label given when you, this nice guy who had a nice little conversation with her at the club, starts dropping intent. Now it looks like you’re trying to get something sexual from her out of nowhere. INSTEAD, if only you had gradually built up the escalation in the INITIAL INTERACTION, the MAN-WOMAN SEXUAL FRAME WOULD BE CEMENTED. She’d either be into it (which is most likely the case) or she’d be blown out. If she blows out due to escalation, better to know now than later…plus WHO GIVES A FUCK. You want to put her to that decision. She’s all in or she’s folding. Don’t let her sit on the fence only to hop off in the wrong direction (flake) when you text her or hop off during the day 2 when your escalation and intent statements come off as aggressive and creepy. All this analysis I’ve provided is my own but I think it makes sense. The parts that came from Jeffy are that you want that Man-Woman frame and that you want to be kissing the girl within 30 minutes otherwise you’re spinning your wheels. The other important piece of what he said is that you’ll get a lot of nice to meet you’s and have a good night type statements. Drawing on my set of empirical data from all my interactions and times in field, I realize that escalating with the girl greatly reduces her chances of flaking. Also, it totally sets the tone for the day 2 and makes things very on. It also greatly raises your chances for pulling. Win win win win win…..I will get into shortly how I saw some sets completely turn around just by getting physical.

So, back to the night 2 recap. The first noteworthy set was when Aussie was in on this real cutie who was visiting her friend in NYC. Jeffy told me to go in and wing. We had had a bunch of sets before this one where I picked up some numbers and had good interactions but this one got kind of juicy. Aussie was going through the physical escalation steps and got his girl to have her arms around him. I made a gesture with my lips that he should kiss her and they finally started making out. All the while I was winging her friend who was also very cute. I was making my girl laugh but I realized after like 10-15 minutes that I was communicating friend-friend. Don’t get me wrong, I was being flirty, I was being entitled, I was being self-amusing, I was being non-reactive, etc etc etc….BUT I WASN’T ESCALATING. This is a super key point and is really going to beef up my game to the next level. It was just a bunch of banter back and forth that WAS NOT GOING ANYWHERE. I’ve had plenty of conversations like this in field and then I think – OK! TIME TO GET THE NUMBER! I’LL GET PHYSICAL LATER ON THE DAY 2…no need to RISK IT now!!! MIGHT AS WELL PLAY IT SAFE…WE HAD A NICE HALF HOUR (or however long) CONVERSATION!!! She’ll DEFINITELY want to see me again!!! The logic breaks down here because:

1)     this bitch got communicated as friend-friend and is now on the fence

2)     shes probably going to flake when I call because I’m JUST ANOTHER GUY SHE HAD A CONVERATION WITH THAT NIGHT

3)     I didn’t get anywhere close to pulling girls like this because there’s no steps towards sexuality. I can’t have a friend-friend conversation then all of the sudden bust out, oh hey! Let’s go chill at my place! The odds of compliance on that move are very small

4)     She has much less invested than if she had madeout with me and/or gotten physical with me in other ways

5)     If she DOES happen to come on the day 2, intent statements will sound creepy due to being too much of a relativistic leap and physical escalation is going to probably seem aggressive since it’s incongruent with the frame I cemented when I met her – AKA FRIEND – FRIEND. This can cause the day 2 to blow out and then leave the PUA feeling like he “missed an opportunity”. What he ACTUALLY missed were his fucking opportunities to escalate back during the initial interaction at the club or wherever. That is what chain-reacted the whole rest of the interaction into a pile of shit.

So bottom line: friend-friend communication is going to drop her compliance way down, keep her investment minimal, put her on the fence, increase her odds of flaking BOTH on your texts or blowing off the date, increase her odds of blowing out the day 2 if she actually comes on it, and in general NOT GETTING WHERE YOU WANT TO WITH HER – AKA FUCKING HER DAMN BRAINS OUT. Great great great fucking realization. New resolution: don’t be a pussy. Don’t play it safe. Fucking escalate and if she blows out she blows out. View escalation not only as a way to INCREASE ODDS OF PULLING, DECREASE ODDS OF FLAKING, MAKE THINGS MORE “ON”, and INCREASE CHANCES OF FUCKING….but also it can be viewed as a clever way to screen if the girl is going to be some prude cunt or if she is going to be dtf. That is, she’s OFF the fence…and PROBABLY ON YOUR SIDE if you’re gaming how you should be. But if she happens to hop off the fence NOT on your side, that’s ALSO GOOD. You now don’t have to deal with the annoyance of her flaking on your number, blowing off your date, being difficult and wasting your time on the day 2, etc. Don’t leave her fucking sitting up on that goddamn fence.

So, what did I do once I realized 10-15 minutes in that I was communicating friend-friend and wasn’t quite vibing good enough with the friend of the girl Aussie was making out with? I ESCALATED. Made her do a spin, locked my hands in hers, put her arms around the back of my neck, gave her the icy eyes, pulled her in close. I saw a DRAMATIC change in the way she was responding. Whereas before it was kind of forced answers and sometimes awkward moments, now she was beaming and clearly turned on. I was leading and I was unapologetically putting myself out there vulnerably. Take it or leave it bitch, I wanna fuck. I have a really good memory and I can distinctly remember a RADICAL change in her demeanor. Then I started peppering in the intent statements. Telling her I could tell she was naughty and wild, that I wanted to have an adventure that night, etc. I then used Jeffy’s Eskimo kiss line and started making out with her. Then I had her. Aussie and I both madeout with our girls for a while and we’d take breaks here and there to make jokes at the other couple like “hey are you guys coming to our wedding” and blah blah blah. I was doing extreme self-amusing role-play about how I was going to take my girl up to this big tower that we could see a bit aways and that’s where we’d live and blah blah blah. The girls were laughing and real turned on. I took pictures of them, they took pictures of us, etc. All the while, I saw Jeffy looking on with approval in the distance. Then we isolated the chicks over near this waterfall in a remote area of the club. I was VERY happy and SHOCKED by what a radical transformation occurred once I got physical. I could have kept up some stupid banter and eventually awkwardly said the “well it was nice to meet you” and prayed for the day 2 going down even though she probably would have flaked me hard. I would have been a fun, interesting guy who entertained her for the night but clearly was too much of a pussy to communicate man-woman and take charge and be dominant. So, during the isolation, we had the girls sit on our laps. We madeout with them a little more here and there. I realized we needed to get logistics set up for the pull. The one that was with Aussie was like, “so what are we all doing after this?” I replied that we’d be having an orgy since I was on the pattern of saying whatever I want – no filter – for the sake of self-amusement. This is actually the correct way to interact. My girl said she had to be up at 7 am and it was already about 3 am (clubs in NYC are open til 4 am). She was saying how she wanted to get into her pajamas and crawl into bed. I busted on her about how she’d probably wear a onesie and shit. The girls went off to conference about whether or not they wanted to come back with us. I told Aussie while they were gone that we needed to put them to a decision. There were other sets to be sarged and if they were going to fuck around then I thought we should probably ditch them. I told Aussie to go tell his girl that he’s only in town for one more day and that he wants her and to find out if it was going to go down or not. I should have told him not to be super direct because the girl got the impression that he was asking if they were fucking us tonight (which is actually what we wanted to know...but maybe we should have put it in nicer terms as to not set off ASD).

Either way, who gives a shit. We moved onto the next sets. Aussie ended up in a set with an asian chick. They were up close and personal for a while and he tried to pull her back to his hotel. She didn’t want to go there with him so Jeffy told him to pull her to a diner. He left with her after a while and the next day he said he fuck closed her. It’s funny because he said when he opened her that she told him he was creepy and weird. She also told him in the cab, “don’t expect anything to happen tonight”. She even said when she was on top of him in his bed that they weren’t going to have sex hahaha. This goes to show that persistence plows through token ASD shit. It also goes to show that when we felt we were spinning our wheels with the original two, it was a sweet move for us to go after new shit. Aussie ended up pulling and fucking the asian. I, on the other hand, got caught up with a hot little blonde girl from the south. She was only in NYC for the weekend. This was another one of those sets where I was mistakenly communicating friend-friend but turned it around by getting physical and cementing the man-woman frame. We were being real flirty and cracking jokes and shit. I went for the kiss close and she said that she doesn’t kiss in public. She was leaving soon because her friends were pushing for her to go. I told her that I wanted to see her after the bar. Her friends were being assholes to me so I acted unreactive and won then over. They just didn’t like northern guys in general but I busted on them for that and made them laugh. After she left I opened a two set of hot Canadians. I told them me and Jeffy were going to come to their house for an afterparty. The one said that would actually work because she was staying at her Mom’s really nice place and her Mom was out of town. Sounded pretty luxurious. Only problem was they had to be up at 6 to fly out of NYC. It was around 3:30 at this time. I told them to just pull an all nighter. They went off to the bathroom and I said I’d find them later. I opened a few more, one of whom had had an altercation with Jeffy and they exchanged harsh words haha. This girl was just a moving set walking by and I grabbed her hand and went with her to the bar. Girls will comply with pretty much anything as long as you are congruent and in state. Fat friend block on this one but was more interested in going after Canadians and the southern chick at that point. Around this time of the night, Aussie was gone, the other bootcamp dude was nowhere to be found, and Jeffy was getting tired. I went back in on the Canadians and they had guys in there at this point. They said that they weren’t going to be able to hang out because of the early flight blah blah. I didn’t push it because I was going to try with the southern chick. I went to the elevator to go downstairs and out front to meet Jeffy. As I was walking towards the elevator, I see 2 hotties getting in it. I hop in with them, put my arms around them both, tell them we’re going to their house for an afterparty…they AGREE, I say cool let me introduce you to my friend jeff out front. We go outside, my arms around both girls still, ready to walk to their house, and Jeffy puts his hand on one of the chicks. She says some bullshit like “hands off” or something and Jeffy instantly blew the set out hard. He was like, FUCK YOU CUNT or some stupid shit lol. He is pretty black and white with dealing with non-compliance. Like if a girl doesn’t fuck on the first date he’ll kick them out and not call them any more. I saw him lash out at chicks just for putting up token resistance or making a joke at his expense. He seemed somewhat jaded as I can only assume 20,000+ approaches and dealing with all the bullshit (even non-approach bullshit) these girls throw at you can do to someone over time. I was kinda pissed that he did that as the 2 girls had tight little dresses on and were drunk and down to hang out. I feel like he didn’t need to blow the whole thing up. So I texted southern bitch and she gave me her hotel address. Jeffy bounced. I get to southern chick’s place and she is texting me from her room that her friends won’t let her leave the hotel room (she was sharing her fucking room with friends…argh). She tells me that she is going to go to bed and that it was nice to meet me. Fuck that. I tell her to come down because I took a cab all the way over to see her. She says she can’t one or two more times so I tell her “just for a minute”. She comes down and tells me it was “an act of congress” to have gotten out of the room. I take her by the hand and go for a walk with her around the city, making out here and there. I tell her that we can finally kiss now that we’re outside of the bar haha. I was staying a half hour away and she had her friends in her hotel room…and my car was a half hour away too so that wasn’t an option. With the logistics being bad, I focused on getting her to really like me and feel comfortable with me. Since this was on a Friday night I figured I’d try to meet up with her Saturday during the day. We madeout a bit more then I cabbed it home. I # closed a girl that was in my friend’s neighborhood where I was staying right after I got out of the cab. It was a real quick close and they were totally ready for bed so despite some persistence it wasn’t going to really go anywhere. In retrospect, I think I could have probably pulled the original girl I was making out with if me and Aussie hadn’t come down so hard…but hey…I was an instructor on the bootcamp with Jeffy and the main guy I was helping out (Aussie) with constant tips/calibrations/winging had pulled the first 2 nights of bootcamp whereas he had never pulled before and only came onto the program at 6 lays. Fuck ya.

SATURDAY: I got lunch with an old friend who I was staying with and told him all about the game. He actually was the guy that first recommended “The Game” and “Mystery Method” to me a few years ago. He had read them for fun and never actually tried any of it out. I had been super skeptical when he told me about them as I did not think there could actually be a science to seducing women. So this was kind of coming full circle. I tell him that this shit is getting really easy for me and tell him I’ll show him how it’s done. I see a sexy little girl in a little outfit crossing the street about half a block away outside the window where we had just finished lunch. I leap to my feet and am off. I walk diagonal as to intercept her walking path. As I near closer I see that she has earbuds in. I stop her, feigning innocence and saying that me and my friend (who was by my side) are DJ’s from Chicago and are staying with frends in this neighborhood. I asked what was fun to do around the neighborhood. We start walking with the chick and she is pretty receptive so I start screening for logistics for later. I ask her if she’s a night owl. She says she is. I say, perfect..cuz me and my friend are dj’ing an event tonight and I’m going to be back in the neighborhood around 4 (after bootcamp hahaha) and am not going to want to go to sleep. She agrees to hang out with me later. Number close. Turns out she’s 18. I was doing a lot of teasing and role-play shit and had her laughing up a storm. I tell her we have to go because I have to get to the hotseat (that’s not the actual reason I gave haha). I go off to hotseat and get a bunch of new good insight from Tyler…blah blah blah won’t go into that here. So we get out to sarging this last night of bootcamp fairly late. We go out around 11:30 by the time all the hotseat shit is wrapped up. Plus they forgot to give a food break during hotseat so I’m pretty hungry at this point. Aussie is a personal trainer and he actually can’t even function or sarge if he hasn’t eaten. So we have to waste even more time to stop and get food on the way from a street vendor. The point of these stupid details is that we got out pretty late and Jeffy takes us to the same venue we went to on the first night of bootcamp (brass monkey in the meatpacking district). This place is fucking mobbed. Like wall to wall, can barely move, people bumping into you over and over from trying to move around in the crowd, etc. Fucking horrible environment for sarging. Then on top of it, Tyler and Brad’s joint bootcamp shows up with Tyler and Brad. Add in to the mix instructor assistant (or whatever the fuck he is) connor from DC and one of his friends. Jeffy sends me in on a three set. I grab the hottest one and then him and connor roll onto the other two. They blow out and I’m still going. I was getting shit-tested but I would just take it to the extreme. Some comment about young girls came up in the conversation and she was like, I bet you like them super young. So I was like, ya…preferably under 15. So the chick was like, “so you’re a pedophile?” and I was like, shhhh that’s a secret, but yes [next thread]. This style was working well because she couldn’t rattle me at all even though she kept trying. I # close and roll off because Jeffy is texting me to come downstairs. Downstairs is just as much of a nightmare…can’t really open anything…way too crowded. I see the girl I # closed (Natasha) downstairs and I re-engage. I have Aussie come in now to wing. Turns out Natasha’s 2 friends have boyfriends. I tell Natasha that I am only in town for the weekend and that I want to have a spontaneous adventure. She tells me she doesn’t do one night stands and I feign innocence. I keep being self-amusing with her and Jeffy, who she tells that he looks like an angry dwarf (which obviously didn’t go over well). Then came the moment of truth. Her friends wanted to leave. I tell her that she should stay and that we’ll hit a diner. I win over the friends. The friends tell her to stay. She stays. Now here’s where things get interesting. I isolate her with my back against the bar and get into some making out using the Eskimo kiss trick. She keeps telling me “we can’t have sex tonight” and I keep insisting that as a rule, I don’t fuck girls on a first date…and as a caveat I said that it wasn’t even the first date yet! I screen her by telling her that the #1 and #2 things I look for in a girl are intelligence and non-sluttiness. She loves this because apparently she meets lots of dumb guys and she thinks a lot of girls are slutty. I also give my token canned example story (which is actually a true story) about how I denied sex to this chick who became a pornstar on our first hangout (I did technically lie though and said this girl was in playboy…which she wasn’t…but she still to this day is the hottest girl I ever fucked….she has a tattoo down her side that says “out of your league”. I actually found out she has AIDS now. But I fucked her a few years ago, well before her pornstar days. I got her by throwing like 50 negs at her when I got her to meet up at a diner. Literally the entire conversation was throw and go negs along with themed “your life’s a mess” negs hahaaha. It actually worked. Anyways, I cement the frame that we are only going to get food and if we go hang at her house she can’t do anything other than kiss me. I make her pinky promise. I often do this kind of shit. Mystery calls it role reversal. YOU set the ground rules, YOU make them promise not to try and fuck you, YOU act like you want much more than sex, etc. All the moves the girl pulls on you you pull on her preemptively. And it’s also coming from a terrific frame that you are DEFINITELY hanging out and she has her little plausible deniability and blah blah blah. Another interesting thing to note about this pickup is I had to AMOG out about 6 different guys every time I turned my back on her. One of the guys that came in on her was brad. The first guy I rolled up on I wrapped my arms around her and just smiled at the guy and he panicked and fled. She was like, hey you’re not my bf all joking/flirty. I was like, yes I am, I love you/want to marry you/blah blah blah. Again, reraise/escalate rather than react. She seemed to be somewhat receptive to Brad but my approach there was just say, “yo I’m an instructor assistant for Jeffy, I’ve already madeout with this chick” and he was like no worries and rolled off. She said that Brad was very physically attractive but he seemed to be trying too hard. She said Tyler clearly only had one thing in mind. And she thought Jeffy was just angry/jaded. Spot on in all 3 cases. Although she told me that she could tell I wasn’t just after sex and she liked that. She also said it’s one of her pet peeves if anyone tries to manipulate her and she’ll shut anyone down instantly when they try. My congruence/calibration must be getting pretty stellar. Jeffy pulls me aside when I’m making out with her and scolds me for losing track of the students. I gave him shit back because he didn’t know where they were either. You could barely move in that fucking venue and it was super annoying. I had stuck with Aussie for a lot of the night then he had wandered off to use the bathroom and disappeared. I tell the girl that we should get out of there and as we’re leaving Jeffy is debriefing the 2 students outside. So they get to see me take her to the cab in all the glory and splendor. Aussie pulled 2 for 3 but the 3^rd night was stacked against him with limited time and super busy venue…but at least they got to see me pull for the 2^nd time that weekend and instill hope that they can start doing that shit all the time too. We take a cab like 70 blocks to her house (short NYC blocks lol)…the diner never even came up….we get into making out, fingering, jerking off, she goes down on me, I put a condom on, I bang her brains out. It didn’t come up ONCE about my “no sex rule” or her “no sex with a guy she just met” and “no one night stands” and blah blah blah. They all fucking say that shit all the time but none of it matters in the end. They just have to say that shit so they don’t feel slutty. I wake up in the morning and bang her again. Now she won’t stop texting me (which has turned into emailing me now that I’m in China). This girl holds a special place in my heart (lol…my heart)…since Jeffy sent me in, Brad tried to steal, she got to meet Jeffy, Tyler, Brad, and I pulled her in front of all of them despite lots of guys trying to steal, a jam-packed environment (she was my first and only set), and a whole bunch of objections. She also didn’t want to take my nut in the mouth but I got her to do it the night of and the morning after. She said she never gives morning head and has no idea how I got her to do it. She wants to come this sat/sun which will fuck up my Saturday night sarging but fuck it. I’ll hit the clubs hard Friday night and then try and day 2/day 3 loose ends from before my travels. My rotation is looking pretty healthy upon my return to the states despite having been gone for so long. I’ve been flirting with these girls via email and fucking them in the brief periods of time I’ve been back in philly.

Another thing to mention is I hit up the sexy 18 year old who I had daygame closed and she came over on Sunday before I left NYC. All she would do is makeout…I tried pushing past all her objections/barriers but no go. Who cares. Another thing I forgot to mention is on that Saturday during the day (before hotseat), I tried to arrange day 2’s with the girl I almost pulled Friday night (the one that got put to a decision) and with the southern chick. The one I almost pulled on Friday night wanted me to meet her at a beer garden with a bunch of her friends. Fuck that. I wanted to fuck that bitch not go shoot the shit. So I didn’t go on that day 2. Although I am going to try and get her to come to philly because she def has a real wild side…I could tell. As for the southern bitch, the meetup almost happened 3 times that day but her friends kept wanting her to stay with them and keep shopping and doing other dumb shit. This actually worked in my favor though. I was texting with southern bitch a whole bunch being real flirty before china and we’ve been emailing every day while in china. She plans to fly to philly for a weekend in November. Our plans include “keeping her warm” because she’s worried about the cold…comments surrounding this have included cuddling, Jacuzzi, and 69 (she said it was 69 last time she was up north) hahaha. I also told her we could watch football cuz she’s a big football fan…but there’s tons of sexual innuendo and flirting. I’m trying to figure out how the fuck she’s so on/invested when the set was only like 15 minutes. I think it has to do with the walk around the city/makeout creating the illusion that we had spent much more time together…then her really wanting to see me on that Saturday during the day but being unable to and regretful…then all the flirting over text and email. If she comes to visit…which it sounds like 90% then I’ll def close that. Short blonde hair..sexy southern accent..fuckin love it.

So that about wraps up my super detailed bootcamp report. Jeffy texted me on Sunday saying thanks for everything and blah blah. Then he texted me a whole bunch more all day which was pretty sweet. He told me something new he came up with for solidifying a girl onto a fuck buddy rotation. He also was sending pictures of himself gardening and shit lol. I definitely proved myself that weekend and he def sees me as a peer now and not some run of the mill chode or wannabe. The very next night after getting back from bootcamp I had dinner with Todd before the inner circle meeting. Todd is treating me different now too – like a peer. He is asking ME for advice, talking to me like a PUA on his level rather than some master, etc. Tyler has been treating me different too and has a big opportunity with me. It’s funny that the might Tyler Durden (Owen), Xaneus (Todd), and Jlaix (Jeffy) from the book, The Game that I read about just a few short years ago…who I viewed as rockstar legends…are now my fucking peers. And I have no doubt about the fact that I will surpass them. I have already in some ways. I’m sure of it. And I’m gunning to catch their lay counts. Here’s where they’re currently at according to their answers when I asked them 1v1 directly:

Todd: Low 100’s

Tyler: around 150

Jeffy: 188

I just hit 125 and 126 in Beijing this weekend, pulling bitches that don’t even speak English. I am going to read the Love Systems text guide to tighten my text game, I’m reading Bhagadva Gita and Power of Now for dealing with indifference and outcome independence, I’m writing field reports and analyzing sticking points, I’m continuing to discuss pickup with local PUA’s, on the forums, and with the instructors, I’m hitting the gym starting when I get back from China, etc. I have a lot of ways to improve and it’s going to be an amazing fucking journey.

Rock n Roll.

Running a bootcamp with Jeffy this weekend in NYC -- pulled on night 1...#123

So here's some interesting things I learned about Jeffy last night:
-He's at 188 lays after 10 years of pickup. (i'm not too far behind..i hit 123 last night)
-He gets a lot of extra success from internet game in which he employs the use of macros (i need to start doing this)
-He gets flakes about half the time with numbers (so don't take flaking so personally)
-He gets afraid to approach in the beginning of the night
-He thinks drinking with pickup is fine

We had a blast together and he said that he usually hates everyone but that he really really likes hanging out with me because he hates me even more than most people lol. he said the only people he likes are the people he hates the most hahaha. he said we're the same person. "J-MULV".."J-LAIX"..hahah. he can tell our personalities are real similar. anyways, awesome bonding/sarging. He was letting me act like the other instructor too which was awesome. we got 1 of our 2 guys laid and we're working on the 2nd tonight. i also pulled last night. this chick from dublin. that was my first genuine irish fuck. banged her twice cuz she had a condom and i had one. wish i had had more. 2nd fuck ended up with a titty fuck and nutting on her face. missed another work meeting cuz i went to bed at 10:30 am. ahh..priorities. off to din then bootcamp round 2.

My journey as a PUA -- where I started off, where I came from, and where I am today

I didn't even come across formal game AT ALL until 2009. i didn't even know it existed. a friend recommended the books "The Game" and "Mystery Method". Then, shortly after implementing the techniques from these books, I ended up with a girlfriend of 1.5 years. The jump you see happen started when I got out of this relationship in March 2011. I learn pretty fuckin quickly and am able to put into practice what I learn pretty quickly as well. My first night out using Mystery Method I got 4 makeouts and 7 numbers, 3 of which turned into fucks. I actually didn't even discover RSD until the end of June of this year when I took a bootcamp with Tyler and Todd. So I've been into the RSD shit for only 3 months. In that 3 months though my number has gone from 103 to 122. I will say that I think there are a bunch of flaws in Mystery Method and RSD is a way better and evolved method, but I still use some things from Mystery Method. It's important to realize that if YOU THINK A SET OF STRATEGIES/TACTICS IS WORKING, that will usually be self-fulfilling and they WILL WORK. This is due to a lot of things happening automatically -- high core confidence, entitlement, what jeffy calls "punching through the wall" (aka not even seeing failure as an option and being so sure of shit working), etc. Just thinking that you have the keys to success will give you success a lot of times. Mindset is very important. This principle kind of snowballs too as you achieve more and more success because you start getting EMPIRICAL RESULTS to point to. It's not just, hey I'M THE FUCKING SHIT any more. It's, wow, I fuck tons of hot bitches, get crazy pulls, and do other insane stuff in field....oh and btw, I'M ALSO THE SHIT. Fake it til you make it. Never doubt yourself. The awesome player you envision yourself to be will manifest itself full force in due time.

So, I was at 61 lays before I even found out anything about formal game. But you can see how much my progress shot up once I started implementing formal game. Lots of people have tried to say that I am a natural since I was at a decent amount of lays before I discovered "game". Well, let me paint the picture of how life was like for me prior to junior year of college. Take senior year of high school: I took the bus to school, was taking 7 AP classes in which I would play wireless chess in class (before wireless technology had even officially come out lol), I would sit with 3 super smart guys at lunch and we would debate philosophy and science, i would sneak out of the lunchroom to go to the library to daytrade stocks, I played the violin, I was in math league, I had never kissed a girl, I planned on waiting until marriage to have sex, ......need I continue? When i finally madeout with my first girl in Freshman year of college I literally shook violently with nervousness. When i lost my virginity at the end of freshman year of college, I busted in about 3 seconds lol. I grew up in a very verbally absusive household and was pretty depressed, nervous, shy, and awkward in high school. Things got a little better in college as I became a lot more outgoing. I started drinking junior year of college (2003) after I switched from a technology school to a liberal arts school. I started going out Fridays and Saturdays for the purpose of drinking/partying/hanging out with friends. I will admit that alcohol changed a lot for me. Coming from a background of serious general anxiety/social anxiety, a few beers opened a new world for me. I got into the habit very quickly of going up to the cute girls at every party and shooting the shit. I learned after a bunch of what I now know are called "approaches", I realized that the countent of what I would first say (my "opener") was meaningless. I would just be friendly, outgoing, and fun and started regularly making out with chicks. Aol instant messenger (AIM) was popular at this time so I would get these bitches screen names and I would typically have like 6-7 windows open at night before going out (or during the day) where I'd be making sexual innuendos and doing lots of flirting (usually using wink faces or tongue faces). I started going out Thursdays, then after a while I added in Wednesdays. Then I would find out about parties going on on Mondays and Tuesdays. By senior year I was going out on Sundays too (so 7 days a week). I was going out for the major reason of partying with friends. being in a drinking environment with music, meeting new people, and the highs of hooking sets, getting IOIs, getting makeouts, etc. were all what fueled me. I quickly became the type of guy that always wanted to go out and always wanted to hit multiple events/parties/bars/etc. I always wanted to go out and stay out as long as possible as long as something fun was going on. I got a player image almost right away because I'd usually clean up at every party or bar. One of my majors in college was Philosophy so one of my main tactics was to be very Machiavellian. I would often use improv lying in real-time to fit the situation and give myself shit to talk about or to serve some purpose. I used to open a lot with "you look familiar..." which I now think is pretty corny but it worked pretty well on college girls. Here is a typical sequence I would use:

me: hey, you look familiar..
HB: from where?
me: we're in that one class together, ummm
HB: which one??
me: it's real early...ummm
HB: class x!?
me: yaaa, i hate that class. i usually don't go because i don't really like the professor
HB: (agrees or disagrees)
me: ya that's true hahahaha, so [stack to some improv shit about the party or her appearance, and so forth]

i started to get what i know is called "self-amusing" by having little challenges with friends. i would bet them money that i could make out with any girl they chose. i would almost always win and this caused me to open difficult sets and take on a player persona in my mind even further. i went through a period of being too sloppy with my drinking where i'd black out parts of the night (and therefore forget all my # closes) or get into the mode of saying dumb shit due to drunkenness. anyways, without getting into too many tangental details, prior to reading the game and mystery method in 2009, here were my main strategies (that got me 61 lays, almost all from cold approach):
1. Be a fearless approacher
2. Think you're the shit. Better yet, KNOW you're the shit. Point to results you achieve to remind yourself of this fact.
3. Be in set a lot. If one stales or blows out, immediately move on to the next
4. The content of the opener (and of the conversation for the most part) is meaningless. Say whatever the fuck you want.
5. Related to 4, while saying whatever the fuck you want -- display charisma, animted body language, expressiveness
6. Feeling entitled

These were all things I just developed from going out and interacting with chicks. You can see what's working and what isn't just from time in the field. Obviously, discovering formal game strategies and tactics helped strengthen a lot of things, add a lot of things, and remove negative habits.

However, to be honest, I think bad habits can really persist for long periods of time without even realizing it. That's why studying formal game is really important. There are subtle things that fuck up your sets or increase your flake percentage or make you needy/try-hard. That's why it's so important to be brutally honest about your sticking points, weak areas, and to constantly be critical of yourself. Don't compare yourself to others though -- just try to become better and better. Make your best set of this week be your average set 6 months from now. Make your craziest adventure this year be something that happens more frequently next year.

All this being said, I'm only 3 months into learning RSD. I'm fitting it into my existing framework and it's fixing a lot of things that I'm doing wrong. I've had to unwire some bad habits and I'm in the process of re-wiring better ones.

The main revelations that RSD gave me (that I've been implementing full force) are the following:
1. Be persistent. This includes re-engaging. I used to roll off when interrupts would happen, when I'd be given shit tests, when the set wasn't, or when AMOGs would come in. Now I see all these things as making the set even more fun and interesting and bust through all that shit.
2. Don't seek reaction. I used to DHV a bunch because of my mystery method background. I would do this from a non-bragging/non-try hard frame so I would just mention the DHV stuff in stories indirectly without them being the focus of stories. However, I still had the mindset that posessions, skills, etc would "impress" the girl and therefore get her to like me more. I try not to DHV much any more. Also, if there is anything I'm going to say where I want the girls to react in some sort of way, I stop myself from doing it. It's better to be SELF-AMUSING and just adding positive emotions to the vibe rather than trying to get them to react a certain way.
3. ESCALATE. I used to look at the phone number as an end goal. I would try and "play it safe" and play "not to lose". The rationale was that I'd be able to keep her in a good spot without escalating and THEN I'D GET HER (YAAA!) when the day 2 came. Wrong wrong wrong. Their emotions and buying temperature is up the night you meet them. A phone number time bridge doesn't even put you where you left off because you are both out of your emotional state so it's like you're starting a bunch of steps back from where you left off. Push for the makeout, push for the move within the venue, push for the venue change, try for the pull home.
4. Fight objections. This ties into being persistent...but it's also an important principle on its own. The girls will give you reasons why they can't give you their phone number, why they can't kiss you, why they can't go home with you, why they can't leave their friends, etc. Train yourself at answering these objections and constantly reframing to the frame that you want. This also entails crushing the frame that they set forth.
5. Build momentum to get into state. The ideas of momentum and state were brand new to me as of end of June of this year. I actually want to start going out at 8 so I can build momentum and get into state by 10 pm and then tear shit to shreds til 2 and then afterclub it til 3:30.
6. Make girls love you or hate you, not tolerate you. This ties into #3 of playing it safe and playing not to lose but it's also important on its own. I would kind of walk the line of trying to keep them around so I wouldn't push too hard sometimes when I needed to for fear of losing them. However, ironically, not pushing hard when you need to is going to leave a lot of girls on the fence. A lost girl isn't much different than one on the fence...neither one is fucking you.
7. Sometimes you have to burn it to the ground. This ties into 6 somewhat. I never wanted to go all out and burn shit but now when the situation warrants it, I do it. Cuz why the fuck not.
8. It's ok to go direct. Mystery method taught me to indirectly open a group and ignore the target and then all the sudden -- OH LOOK I WANT THE TARGET! I almost always open the target directly now. It's still important to win over the group...but I don't like the whole indirect approach shit that much any more. I think you can get much more solid sets by going direct.
9. Don't put pussy on a pedastal. Mystery method taught me that I started off at a big value disadvantage and that I needed to DHV to the girl to raise my value while simultaneously negging the girl to lower hers. This would cause a relative value shift and at some point my value would surpass hers. Now i believe in core confidence and see myself on her level (or usually higher than her level lol). I have a ton of shit going for me and can get hotties all day so why would one hot body intimidate me. With this mindset, it's much easier to approach the top stunners and not subcommunicate that you are lower value. It's all in your fuckin head. If you want to give them some pseudo-worth, it's just going to fuck you up.
10. LEAD. Put your hand out to the girl. Put her arms around the back of your head. Take her spots in the venue. Call the shots. If a friend interrupt comes in, have her introduce you. If she disrespects you, call her on it. Direct the interaction.

I'm sure there's others but those are some of the main ones. As should be apparent now, formal game training ACCELERATES your progress but there's no substitute for lots of time in the field. I went form being a depressed super nerd in an abusive home to having full abundance. Just make your mind up that you're going to be a fucking beast and then go and be a fucking beast. It's that simple. Try to fix areas you can but also don't expect things to happen overnight. The hotness of the girls has gone up and up. My general success and lays and crazy adventures have gone up and up. It gradually builds.

Best advice I can get to anyone no matter what your level -- go out a lot, never give a fuck, be critical of what you're doing wrong, and be patient. Now that I've given my life story as a PUA, i'm off to sarge.