I closed an eastern european blonde czech chick on a day 2 last night. Fucked her a bunch of ways in my room and on my pool table. Didn't even take her out any where. She was supposed to be over by 8 or 9 but didn't show up til midnight so i told her that we weren't going to go on a date since she got there so late. tour of the house, ended up in my bed..she gave a bunch of token resistance. said she wasn't going to sleep with me...etc.
The TURNING POINT was telling her that i didn't give a fuck if we had sex or not and actually being CONGRUENT with that. once she believed that, she wanted to fuck. good thing i know game and didn't push back against her anti-slut defense. Always love the fucking IRONY that ONCE YOU ARE WILLING TO WALK AWAY and once you can TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT, that's when they're ready to fuck. Mystery says not to fight their logical mind. Just agree that you "shouldn't be doing this" or whatever. I did some freezeout stuff too. I'd escalate with her and when she'd push i'd put my clothes on and be like ok let's go to the club and act non-butthurt. i kept making her think she was ruining the fun sexual energy because she def wanted to fuck...she just wanted plausible deniability and not to feel slutty about it. there ya go honey. wham bam smash. def seems like it'll be a repeat fuck. she was already talking about "next time" and blah blah. i told her that i'll take her on a real date next time which will probably amount to half-priced margaritas at happy hour hahah.
i also had a day 2 with a hired gun stunner before i fucked the czech bitch. this other girl, liz, was fucking awesome. shes going to med school next year. right now she works as a shot girl and dances on the bar at this country bar place. super sexy. half indian, half italian. real piercing eyes and sexy skin color..nice tits..nice smile..etc. she also lives like 2 blocks away from me. the date went fucking awesome but she rejected my kiss on the way home. shes into electronic music so i got her to come in my place after the date to teach her how to dj. i built more comfort there and then she let me makeout with her but she was still giving some token resistance to it. i think i might have pushed for too much making out throughout the hangout back at my house. even when she was leaving i was trying to kiss her one more time and she didn't want me to so i used the trick of having her kiss my cheek then turning my head to kiss her. i need to stop pushing the girls so hard as to not give off a creepy or try-hard vibe. having some drinks in my system doesn't always make this easy.
bottom line: i've ruined some day 2's by being too pushy/persistent in a slightly drunk/try-hard way with girls that aren't completely receptive yet to getting all sexual. i think this kills my power and makes them feel that i am too aggressive....which can leave a bad taste in their mouths for the next hangout.
lesson: escalate and push but treat the physical stuff as no big deal if it is anything more than token resistance. this will be a judgement call read. the purpose in these situations should be to continue the interaction on a day 3 rather than blowing it out just to get some stupid making out in on the day 2. i had a lot of good value and an awesome vibe with her during the date at the bar (and this is usually the case also with the day 2's i've ruined by being too aggressive -- that is, the date at the bar goes awesome then i'm too pushy with sexual stuff after and some girls just aren't receptive to that right away). it becomes a power shift because now she has a bad taste in her mouth and you're grovelling for that next hangout even though she may have some bad emotions or lower value associated with you.
applying this lesson to the liz date last night, i think it would have been best to get the kiss in but then respect her boundaries and not keep pushing for it and just play it cool. i also don't have to get a "kiss goodbye"..like who gives a shit. the point is to make her feel comfortable and to have fun and show her that nothing is a big deal to me. if i'm constantly pushing for something she isn't ready for then shes going to get annoyed and it's going to look like it's a big deal to me (and also, that i'm only after one thing).
anyways, the double day 2's with the stunners last night was fun..one resulted in the f close and the other i will probably see again. i also had a german fuck buddy over around 3:45 last night banged her brains out...consequently not getting much sleep. i have a day 2 in one hour now with a hot italian college chick. then this girl from nashville is flying in to philly. i madeout with her during the jeffy bootcamp i co-instructed and have been keeping up texts and emails with her for about 5-6 weeks. shes FINALLY coming to visit and i can fuck this bitch and not have to deal with the daily texting with her lol.
i told a lot of girls in the mix that i haven't day 2'd yet that i have "friends in town thru sunday" and will be hitting up a whole list of them on sunday to arrange dates for next week (since i cant sarge this weekend due to nashville girl cockblock). the nashville girl should be fun. she's a blonde with a southern accent. i'll beat that puss up for a few days then send her back off home haha.
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