What’s up mother fuckers. Coming at you from hour 11 of my
14 hour flight to Beijing.
It’s been a long day. I get to do an hour of customs bullshit and then take an
hour taxi ride from the airport to my hotel. Then once I get to the hotel I
have to finalize all my shit for testing tomorrow. But enough about that. Let’s
crack into what I’ve been up to.
I’ll start with what I’ve been doing on the plane and work
backwards. I have read the first 3 chapters in “The Power of Now” and it’s
fucking awesome. I have been taking some notes and will upload those as I get
more through the book. There is some really good shit in there and I highly
recommend it to anyone who hasn’t read it. It is definitely going to help me
immensely in dealing with emotional pain, attachment to outcomes, my OCD, and
the damage from a verbally abusive childhood. I’ll get more into that shit in a
different post.
I want to break down what happened this past weekend and
some revelations I had. I was able to get signed up last minute as Jeffy
(Jlaix) instructor assistant. Jeffy is an RSD instructor who was in the book,
The Game (which was my first exposure to game). I’ve had some forum exchanges
and phone calls with him regarding working large volumes of bitches and how to
cut to the chase quick and get solid numbers turned into day 2’s.
It was super sick to finally get to meet him, wing with him
all weekend in NYC, and help instruct his bootcamp students. It was funny
because when I first met him in person he didn’t realize I was the guy from the
forums and the phone call and he was super abrasive to me. He was bitching
about how he heard from Tyler that I had stolen
a phone number over Tyler’s
shoulder. Then he went off to change his shirt. Once I arrived at this random
hotel lobby which was the meeting location for students, I texted Jeffy and he
said he was on the way. I told him that I was the dude from the forum and phone
conversations and he was like omg I had no idea I thought you were just some
chode. He was real warm and receptive once he arrived and was laughing about he
had just assumed I was some fag and that he was really happy to finally meet
me. He said he had wondered what I was like in the field after reading about me
on the forums and having that conversation. He remained abrasive to the
students however…lol. I have a bunch of notes in my phone that I can’t
currently turn on so I will put those in another post. I had some key
revelations from things that he told students. The students by the way were
only two total. One was from Australia
just in NYC for the weekend. He was at 6 lays. I will refer to him as Aussie.
The other dude (Jay) said he just turned 21 recently so he isn’t used to the
bar/club scene. He had banged a few girls in his social circle but that was
about it. So 2 instructors (me and Jeffy) and these 2 guys.
Here is the nights breakdown:
Thursday night: Arrive at the first venue which was an
outdoor beer garden. Jeffy suggests that we all get drinks. I found this funny
because RSD puts out videos about “The truth about alcohol” and saying how
alcohol fucks shit up. However, I’ve always been a big fan of drinking and I
love gaming with some drinks in me. I do very well and I drink nearly every
time. Jeffy said he drinks almost every time too. He said all that truth about
alcohol shit is bs. So that was nice to see that he was drinking. Another
interesting thing that he pointed out was that at the beginning of the night,
he DOES NOT FEEL LIKE APPROACHING and he said that Tyler feels the same way. A good analogy is that
the pool is always cold when Michael Phelps first jumps in. That’s just how it
is. Sometimes I would take that beginning of night approach anxiety/hesitance
personally and let it disrupt my night further. Now I am going to take it as a
token thing that even the masters feel and not take it seriously at all. Jeffy
said that after he gets blown out a few times then he’s good to go. He was
saying how the dynamic of the crowd is different at the beginning of the night
too – he said that everyone is kind of getting into the social mood and things
are a bit more tame. So we did a few warmup approaches at the beer garden then
bounced over to a nearby bar. At this 2nd place, I open a set with
the Aussie and it goes real well. Turns out they are Irish. Number close and
say we’ll meet up with them later. Upstairs there was a bachelorette party.
Before approaching that, I had a different girl giving me the eyes. I open that
get flirty and shit with her. She tells me that she thinks I’m super cute and
is really into me and that it’s a shame she has a bf. I # close her anyways and
push to get her to makeout with me and shit. She gets really close to doing it
but ultimately doesn’t because her boss was at the club with her. So onto the
bachelorette party..me and Aussie worked that whole group. Jeffy meanwhile
gamed up some cutie and got some kissing in with her and was moving her around
the venue. I gamed up most of the girls in the bachelorette party and was
carrying the bachelorette around and shit. Number closed one of the
chicks…anyways let me cut to the chase. Jeffy brings his girl up and hands her
off to Aussie via introduction. Aussie has some good convo with her. Seems like
it’s going really well but then he comes back over to me and Jeffy. We ask him
wtf he’s doing and he said he didn’t know what to do next. We sent him back in
and told him to go for the makeout. So he went back in and talked a bit more
and seemed hesistant to do it. We gave him some signals and he ended up making
out with her pretty heavy. Then he comes back over to us again. Again, we ask
him wtf he’s doing. He says that the making out was fun and he wasn’t sure what
to do next again. I tell him that he should go back up to her and tell her that
he wants to go outside and get some fresh air. I said if the friends object to
tell them that he’s just borrowing her for a minute. I told him if that if SHE
objects just get her one step closer and one step closer to the cab. Then get
her in the cab. And if she objects about the friends tell her it’ll be fine and
just plow it. So I go in with him and put my 2 fists out to the 4 obstacles.
This was an improve move but I had them all fist-pounding me. I would focus
attention dynamically on whoever seemed most attentive and/or concerned about
the one friend leaving with my friend. I would use the 2 seconds dynamic banter
shit so I had them all occupied. It was kind of like that game whack a mole
lol. Then I did some grandiose tonality/expressiveness/body language and said I
had an awesome story for them..and I sat with the group. By this time Aussie
was gone with the chick. Jeffy, Jay, and I ended up bouncing to a different
latenight club around 2. Jeffy and I proceeded to rip a bunch of shots and
pound some beers..we were having a blast. I # closed a hottie from Uruguay but then I met this cute Irish girl who
was from Dublin and going back to Dublin on Saturday. Jeffy
and I were competing for her but I had gone in first so I had most of the
rapport and interest from her. I blew out Jeffy by winning over the target’s
best friend and then having the best friend tell Jeffy that she approves of me
and not Jeffy haha. My move to get a kiss from her was to say, “Have you kissed
an American guy yet while you’ve been visiting from Ireland?” That didn’t work with her
so I isolated her to the dancefloor which was right nearby we had been talking.
On the dancefloor I just got all up close and personal and I think (can’t
remember) that I asked her to Eskimo kiss me. This is a technique Jeffy taught
us. It actually works really well because it’s a smaller hoop that going
straight in for the kiss. After they do the Eskimo kiss you tell them that they
need to do it more gently. So I started working logistics with this Irish bitch
to get her back home. I framed it that we should go somewhere after we left the
bar for “drinks”. She said she had girls staying in her hotel room so that
wasn’t an option. I told her we could go have drinks in my hotel lobby and
shit. She asks which hotel I’m staying at. I replied that we could go outside
and find the nearest hotel and that set of ASD for her and almost fucked
everything up. Admittedly it did sound like a real cheap thing to say lol but I
was recovered by saying that I hadn’t booked a hotel yet and I was going to
have to do that anyways…so I wasn’t just booking one for us. I don’t remember
how I got her away from her friends cuz I was kinda drunk but we ended up
leaving the bar with the intention of getting drinks at a hotel I could find.
I’m sure she knew what was really going to go down. I’m pretty sure I used
intent statements like, I want to have a spontaneous adventure tonight. Oh one
other funny thin to mention is that some fag tried to give me pointers and act
cool by being like “Jeffy is trying to steal your girl, what are you going to
do about that?” I was like, who the fuck are you? He said he was an RSD intern.
I asked his lay count. He said around 20. I told him I was at 122 and knew what
the fuck I was doing and to shut the fuck up. He saw me pull too..hope he had
fun jerking off that night. That’s another thing Jeffy did for me – instill
this kind of no bullshit attitude directed out to be fired at chodes and AMOGS
and not just bitches. So I’m walking around NYC at like 4 AM trying to find a
hotel. We were just asking people on the street mainly. The first 2 that came
upon were all booked up and I thought this was going to blow me out but she
stuck around. I just kept bantering and we were holding hands. The 3rd
hotel was a Marriott and they had a couple rooms left. We got one on the top
floor (I think 20th floor) and bought a 6 pack from the bar to take
to the room. I got jammed up for like $400 between the room and beers but fuck
it…I had no better pulling option. I don’t usually have to spend anything on a
pull but it was bootcamp and fuck it. I was staying with friends half hour away
from that bar and I hadn’t even met up with them to ge the key yet…so that
wouldn’t have worked out. I had 1 condom and she had 1 condom so I was able to
fuck her twice at least. We fucked all night. The 2nd time after
fucking her in a bunch of positions I titty fucked her and busted on her face.
Pounded a stella artois
and bounced out of the room around 8 am. Called into a work meeting for IBM
from my car at like 9 am. Ahh..i love the player life. This chick had a sexy
irish accent too. What a sick time. I found out the next day that Aussie got
the girl back to his hotel and they were hooking up in his bed and she ended up
having a bush. He couldn’t get an erection after seeing she had a bush lol. So
no fuck close for him. But I basically set everything up to happen and he made
things happen so I’m proud of him. He ended up pulling and fuck closing an
asian girl the 2nd night which I will get into in the next story. So
that was 2 pulls in the first 2 nights from a bootcamp student that I was
winging/teaching. It was an awesome feeling to watch him transform. He was at 6
lays coming in so the 2 he should have gotten on bootcamp (the 1st
one didn’t go down cuz of bush) would have increased his laycount 33% lol. Sick
progress. Ok I’m about to watch Pee-Wee’s great adventure because that shit is
hilarious and I have about 1.5 hours left before touching down in Beijing.
Damn…so I was up for 36 hours straight since leaving Philly
before I finally got to bed in Beijing.
I had a bunch of shit to do for work right when I got in and had to fight off
the exhaustion for 16 hours after landing before I could finally pass out for 2
hours then go conduct testing. I also found out that the government blocks
foreign sites like blogspot.com so I’m going to have to post this massive
bootcamp report once I’m back in the USA next week. China sucks
right now cuz everyone talks with an annoying accent, there’s tons of stupid
symbols around, I stick out like a sore thumb since I’m a 6’4 white dude, and
I’m fucking exhausted. But, since my Chinese counterpart is currently
administering the testing since I can’t read or speak fucking Mandarin, I have
some time to blog it up. So…where did I leave off. Ah yes, the 2nd
night of bootcamp.
FRIDAY: Coming off Thursday night where me and Aussie both
pulled, I was in good spirits and ready to do it all over again. This time the
crew (me, Jeffy, and the 2 students) went to this big outdoor roofdeck bar/club
with palm trees all over and amazing views of the city. We cracked right into
it and were getting socially lubricated. Before going out, Jeffy expressed to
the students that that night was all about getting physical and escalating.
This meant fingers weaved amongst the girl’s fingers, holding out a hand and
having her do a spin, doing a lift, doing a fake waltz dance, kissing, and
doing a move with putting her hands around the back of your neck. There were
some SUPER KEY POINTS MADE HERE BY JEFFY that I think are going to REVOLUTIONIZE
MY GAME. Namely, he expressed that these moves were ESSENTIAL so that you
didn’t communicate with the girl friend-friend but rather MAN-WOMAN. He said
that if you haven’t kissed a girl in the first 30 minutes of an interaction
that you’re probably just spinning your wheels. THIS WAS A HUGE REALIZATION FOR
ME. It had been stressed on my bootcamp in Philadelphia that the #1 mistake guys make it
failing to escalate. This also ties into PLAYING TO WIN rather than playing
“not to lose” (aka playing it safe). The point is to not have girls ON THE
FENCE about fucking you. They should either LOVE YOU or HATE YOU and it should
be a CLEAR DECISION in their mind. Jeffy warned that if you communicated
friend-friend and didn’t escalate that you’d end up with a lot of times with
“have a nice night” or “well it was nice meeting you.” These types of
interactions are going to lead to higher probability of the woman flaking. It
also will be less “on” and if you DO happen to get the friend-friend
interaction girl on the day 2, the escalation on the day 2 is going to seem
like more of a shock or big deal to her because you have been too much of a
pussy thus far to communicate the man-woman frame. Additionally, statements of
intent made on the day 2 might seem over the top or creep since you have not
cemented this frame. From your initial interaction, she’s used to you being
reserved, playing it safe, being a faggot, etc. She’s on the fence. Then, when
you get heavy with intent or escalation on the day 2 you can get blown out for
reasons such as being “too aggressive” or “creepy”. Too aggressive more often
times than not means you didn’t escalate soon enough so this big change
contrasts in a relativistic way. Creepy can be a label given when you, this
nice guy who had a nice little conversation with her at the club, starts
dropping intent. Now it looks like you’re trying to get something sexual from
her out of nowhere. INSTEAD, if only you had gradually built up the escalation
in the INITIAL INTERACTION, the MAN-WOMAN SEXUAL FRAME WOULD BE CEMENTED. She’d
either be into it (which is most likely the case) or she’d be blown out. If she
blows out due to escalation, better to know now than later…plus WHO GIVES A
FUCK. You want to put her to that decision. She’s all in or she’s folding. Don’t
let her sit on the fence only to hop off in the wrong direction (flake) when
you text her or hop off during the day 2 when your escalation and intent
statements come off as aggressive and creepy. All this analysis I’ve provided
is my own but I think it makes sense. The parts that came from Jeffy are that
you want that Man-Woman frame and that you want to be kissing the girl within
30 minutes otherwise you’re spinning your wheels. The other important piece of
what he said is that you’ll get a lot of nice to meet you’s and have a good
night type statements. Drawing on my set of empirical data from all my
interactions and times in field, I realize that escalating with the girl
greatly reduces her chances of flaking. Also, it totally sets the tone for the day
2 and makes things very on. It also greatly raises your chances for pulling.
Win win win win win…..I will get into shortly how I saw some sets completely
turn around just by getting physical.
So, back to the night 2 recap. The first noteworthy set was when
Aussie was in on this real cutie who was visiting her friend in NYC. Jeffy told
me to go in and wing. We had had a bunch of sets before this one where I picked
up some numbers and had good interactions but this one got kind of juicy.
Aussie was going through the physical escalation steps and got his girl to have
her arms around him. I made a gesture with my lips that he should kiss her and
they finally started making out. All the while I was winging her friend who was
also very cute. I was making my girl laugh but I realized after like 10-15
minutes that I was communicating friend-friend. Don’t get me wrong, I was being
flirty, I was being entitled, I was being self-amusing, I was being
non-reactive, etc etc etc….BUT I WASN’T ESCALATING. This is a super key point
and is really going to beef up my game to the next level. It was just a bunch
of banter back and forth that WAS NOT GOING ANYWHERE. I’ve had plenty of
conversations like this in field and then I think – OK! TIME TO GET THE NUMBER!
I’LL GET PHYSICAL LATER ON THE DAY 2…no need to RISK IT now!!! MIGHT AS WELL
PLAY IT SAFE…WE HAD A NICE HALF HOUR (or however long) CONVERSATION!!! She’ll
DEFINITELY want to see me again!!! The logic breaks down here because:
1) this
bitch got communicated as friend-friend and is now on the fence
2) shes
probably going to flake when I call because I’m JUST ANOTHER GUY SHE HAD A
CONVERATION WITH THAT NIGHT
3) I
didn’t get anywhere close to pulling girls like this because there’s no steps
towards sexuality. I can’t have a friend-friend conversation then all of the
sudden bust out, oh hey! Let’s go chill at my place! The odds of compliance on
that move are very small
4) She
has much less invested than if she had madeout with me and/or gotten physical
with me in other ways
5) If
she DOES happen to come on the day 2, intent statements will sound creepy due
to being too much of a relativistic leap and physical escalation is going to
probably seem aggressive since it’s incongruent with the frame I cemented when
I met her – AKA FRIEND – FRIEND. This can cause the day 2 to blow out and then
leave the PUA feeling like he “missed an opportunity”. What he ACTUALLY missed
were his fucking opportunities to escalate back during the initial interaction
at the club or wherever. That is what chain-reacted the whole rest of the
interaction into a pile of shit.
So bottom line: friend-friend communication is going to drop
her compliance way down, keep her investment minimal, put her on the fence,
increase her odds of flaking BOTH on your texts or blowing off the date, increase
her odds of blowing out the day 2 if she actually comes on it, and in general
NOT GETTING WHERE YOU WANT TO WITH HER – AKA FUCKING HER DAMN BRAINS OUT. Great
great great fucking realization. New resolution: don’t be a pussy. Don’t play
it safe. Fucking escalate and if she blows out she blows out. View escalation
not only as a way to INCREASE ODDS OF PULLING, DECREASE ODDS OF FLAKING, MAKE
THINGS MORE “ON”, and INCREASE CHANCES OF FUCKING….but also it can be viewed as
a clever way to screen if the girl is going to be some prude cunt or if she is
going to be dtf. That is, she’s OFF the fence…and PROBABLY ON YOUR SIDE if
you’re gaming how you should be. But if she happens to hop off the fence NOT on
your side, that’s ALSO GOOD. You now don’t have to deal with the annoyance of
her flaking on your number, blowing off your date, being difficult and wasting
your time on the day 2, etc. Don’t leave her fucking sitting up on that goddamn
fence.
So, what did I do once I realized 10-15 minutes in that I
was communicating friend-friend and wasn’t quite vibing good enough with the
friend of the girl Aussie was making out with? I ESCALATED. Made her do a spin,
locked my hands in hers, put her arms around the back of my neck, gave her the
icy eyes, pulled her in close. I saw a DRAMATIC change in the way she was
responding. Whereas before it was kind of forced answers and sometimes awkward
moments, now she was beaming and clearly turned on. I was leading and I was
unapologetically putting myself out there vulnerably. Take it or leave it
bitch, I wanna fuck. I have a really good memory and I can distinctly remember
a RADICAL change in her demeanor. Then I started peppering in the intent
statements. Telling her I could tell she was naughty and wild, that I wanted to
have an adventure that night, etc. I then used Jeffy’s Eskimo kiss line and
started making out with her. Then I had her. Aussie and I both madeout with our
girls for a while and we’d take breaks here and there to make jokes at the
other couple like “hey are you guys coming to our wedding” and blah blah blah.
I was doing extreme self-amusing role-play about how I was going to take my
girl up to this big tower that we could see a bit aways and that’s where we’d
live and blah blah blah. The girls were laughing and real turned on. I took
pictures of them, they took pictures of us, etc. All the while, I saw Jeffy
looking on with approval in the distance. Then we isolated the chicks over near
this waterfall in a remote area of the club. I was VERY happy and SHOCKED by
what a radical transformation occurred once I got physical. I could have kept
up some stupid banter and eventually awkwardly said the “well it was nice to
meet you” and prayed for the day 2 going down even though she probably would
have flaked me hard. I would have been a fun, interesting guy who entertained
her for the night but clearly was too much of a pussy to communicate man-woman
and take charge and be dominant. So, during the isolation, we had the girls sit
on our laps. We madeout with them a little more here and there. I realized we
needed to get logistics set up for the pull. The one that was with Aussie was
like, “so what are we all doing after this?” I replied that we’d be having an
orgy since I was on the pattern of saying whatever I want – no filter – for the
sake of self-amusement. This is actually the correct way to interact. My girl
said she had to be up at 7 am and it was already about 3 am (clubs in NYC are
open til 4 am). She was saying how she wanted to get into her pajamas and crawl
into bed. I busted on her about how she’d probably wear a onesie and shit. The
girls went off to conference about whether or not they wanted to come back with
us. I told Aussie while they were gone that we needed to put them to a
decision. There were other sets to be sarged and if they were going to fuck
around then I thought we should probably ditch them. I told Aussie to go tell
his girl that he’s only in town for one more day and that he wants her and to
find out if it was going to go down or not. I should have told him not to be
super direct because the girl got the impression that he was asking if they
were fucking us tonight (which is actually what we wanted to know...but maybe
we should have put it in nicer terms as to not set off ASD).
Either way, who gives a shit. We moved onto the next sets.
Aussie ended up in a set with an asian chick. They were up close and personal
for a while and he tried to pull her back to his hotel. She didn’t want to go
there with him so Jeffy told him to pull her to a diner. He left with her after
a while and the next day he said he fuck closed her. It’s funny because he said
when he opened her that she told him he was creepy and weird. She also told him
in the cab, “don’t expect anything to happen tonight”. She even said when she
was on top of him in his bed that they weren’t going to have sex hahaha. This
goes to show that persistence plows through token ASD shit. It also goes to
show that when we felt we were spinning our wheels with the original two, it
was a sweet move for us to go after new shit. Aussie ended up pulling and
fucking the asian. I, on the other hand, got caught up with a hot little blonde
girl from the south. She was only in NYC for the weekend. This was another one
of those sets where I was mistakenly communicating friend-friend but turned it
around by getting physical and cementing the man-woman frame. We were being
real flirty and cracking jokes and shit. I went for the kiss close and she said
that she doesn’t kiss in public. She was leaving soon because her friends were
pushing for her to go. I told her that I wanted to see her after the bar. Her
friends were being assholes to me so I acted unreactive and won then over. They
just didn’t like northern guys in general but I busted on them for that and
made them laugh. After she left I opened a two set of hot Canadians. I told
them me and Jeffy were going to come to their house for an afterparty. The one
said that would actually work because she was staying at her Mom’s really nice
place and her Mom was out of town. Sounded pretty luxurious. Only problem was
they had to be up at 6 to fly out of NYC. It was around 3:30 at this time. I
told them to just pull an all nighter. They went off to the bathroom and I said
I’d find them later. I opened a few more, one of whom had had an altercation
with Jeffy and they exchanged harsh words haha. This girl was just a moving set
walking by and I grabbed her hand and went with her to the bar. Girls will
comply with pretty much anything as long as you are congruent and in state. Fat
friend block on this one but was more interested in going after Canadians and
the southern chick at that point. Around this time of the night, Aussie was
gone, the other bootcamp dude was nowhere to be found, and Jeffy was getting
tired. I went back in on the Canadians and they had guys in there at this
point. They said that they weren’t going to be able to hang out because of the
early flight blah blah. I didn’t push it because I was going to try with the
southern chick. I went to the elevator to go downstairs and out front to meet
Jeffy. As I was walking towards the elevator, I see 2 hotties getting in it. I
hop in with them, put my arms around them both, tell them we’re going to their
house for an afterparty…they AGREE, I say cool let me introduce you to my
friend jeff out front. We go outside, my arms around both girls still, ready to
walk to their house, and Jeffy puts his hand on one of the chicks. She says
some bullshit like “hands off” or something and Jeffy instantly blew the set out
hard. He was like, FUCK YOU CUNT or some stupid shit lol. He is pretty black
and white with dealing with non-compliance. Like if a girl doesn’t fuck on the
first date he’ll kick them out and not call them any more. I saw him lash out
at chicks just for putting up token resistance or making a joke at his expense.
He seemed somewhat jaded as I can only assume 20,000+ approaches and dealing
with all the bullshit (even non-approach bullshit) these girls throw at you can
do to someone over time. I was kinda pissed that he did that as the 2 girls had
tight little dresses on and were drunk and down to hang out. I feel like he
didn’t need to blow the whole thing up. So I texted southern bitch and she gave
me her hotel address. Jeffy bounced. I get to southern chick’s place and she is
texting me from her room that her friends won’t let her leave the hotel room
(she was sharing her fucking room with friends…argh). She tells me that she is
going to go to bed and that it was nice to meet me. Fuck that. I tell her to come
down because I took a cab all the way over to see her. She says she can’t one
or two more times so I tell her “just for a minute”. She comes down and tells
me it was “an act of congress” to have gotten out of the room. I take her by
the hand and go for a walk with her around the city, making out here and there.
I tell her that we can finally kiss now that we’re outside of the bar haha. I
was staying a half hour away and she had her friends in her hotel room…and my
car was a half hour away too so that wasn’t an option. With the logistics being
bad, I focused on getting her to really like me and feel comfortable with me.
Since this was on a Friday night I figured I’d try to meet up with her Saturday
during the day. We madeout a bit more then I cabbed it home. I # closed a girl
that was in my friend’s neighborhood where I was staying right after I got out
of the cab. It was a real quick close and they were totally ready for bed so
despite some persistence it wasn’t going to really go anywhere. In retrospect,
I think I could have probably pulled the original girl I was making out with if
me and Aussie hadn’t come down so hard…but hey…I was an instructor on the
bootcamp with Jeffy and the main guy I was helping out (Aussie) with constant
tips/calibrations/winging had pulled the first 2 nights of bootcamp whereas he
had never pulled before and only came onto the program at 6 lays. Fuck ya.
SATURDAY: I got lunch with an old friend who I was staying
with and told him all about the game. He actually was the guy that first
recommended “The Game” and “Mystery Method” to me a few years ago. He had read
them for fun and never actually tried any of it out. I had been super skeptical
when he told me about them as I did not think there could actually be a science
to seducing women. So this was kind of coming full circle. I tell him that this
shit is getting really easy for me and tell him I’ll show him how it’s done. I
see a sexy little girl in a little outfit crossing the street about half a
block away outside the window where we had just finished lunch. I leap to my
feet and am off. I walk diagonal as to intercept her walking path. As I near
closer I see that she has earbuds in. I stop her, feigning innocence and saying
that me and my friend (who was by my side) are DJ’s from Chicago and are staying with frends in this
neighborhood. I asked what was fun to do around the neighborhood. We start
walking with the chick and she is pretty receptive so I start screening for
logistics for later. I ask her if she’s a night owl. She says she is. I say,
perfect..cuz me and my friend are dj’ing an event tonight and I’m going to be
back in the neighborhood around 4 (after bootcamp hahaha) and am not going to
want to go to sleep. She agrees to hang out with me later. Number close. Turns
out she’s 18. I was doing a lot of teasing and role-play shit and had her
laughing up a storm. I tell her we have to go because I have to get to the
hotseat (that’s not the actual reason I gave haha). I go off to hotseat and get
a bunch of new good insight from Tyler…blah
blah blah won’t go into that here. So we get out to sarging this last night of
bootcamp fairly late. We go out around 11:30 by the time all the hotseat shit
is wrapped up. Plus they forgot to give a food break during hotseat so I’m
pretty hungry at this point. Aussie is a personal trainer and he actually can’t
even function or sarge if he hasn’t eaten. So we have to waste even more time
to stop and get food on the way from a street vendor. The point of these stupid
details is that we got out pretty late and Jeffy takes us to the same venue we
went to on the first night of bootcamp (brass monkey in the meatpacking
district). This place is fucking mobbed. Like wall to wall, can barely move,
people bumping into you over and over from trying to move around in the crowd,
etc. Fucking horrible environment for sarging. Then on top of it, Tyler and
Brad’s joint bootcamp shows up with Tyler and Brad. Add in to the mix
instructor assistant (or whatever the fuck he is) connor from DC and one of his
friends. Jeffy sends me in on a three set. I grab the hottest one and then him
and connor roll onto the other two. They blow out and I’m still going. I was
getting shit-tested but I would just take it to the extreme. Some comment about
young girls came up in the conversation and she was like, I bet you like them
super young. So I was like, ya…preferably under 15. So the chick was like, “so
you’re a pedophile?” and I was like, shhhh that’s a secret, but yes [next
thread]. This style was working well because she couldn’t rattle me at all even
though she kept trying. I # close and roll off because Jeffy is texting me to
come downstairs. Downstairs is just as much of a nightmare…can’t really open
anything…way too crowded. I see the girl I # closed (Natasha) downstairs and I
re-engage. I have Aussie come in now to wing. Turns out Natasha’s 2 friends
have boyfriends. I tell Natasha that I am only in town for the weekend and that
I want to have a spontaneous adventure. She tells me she doesn’t do one night
stands and I feign innocence. I keep being self-amusing with her and Jeffy, who
she tells that he looks like an angry dwarf (which obviously didn’t go over
well). Then came the moment of truth. Her friends wanted to leave. I tell her
that she should stay and that we’ll hit a diner. I win over the friends. The
friends tell her to stay. She stays. Now here’s where things get interesting. I
isolate her with my back against the bar and get into some making out using the
Eskimo kiss trick. She keeps telling me “we can’t have sex tonight” and I keep
insisting that as a rule, I don’t fuck girls on a first date…and as a caveat I
said that it wasn’t even the first date yet! I screen her by telling her that
the #1 and #2 things I look for in a girl are intelligence and non-sluttiness.
She loves this because apparently she meets lots of dumb guys and she thinks a
lot of girls are slutty. I also give my token canned example story (which is
actually a true story) about how I denied sex to this chick who became a
pornstar on our first hangout (I did technically lie though and said this girl
was in playboy…which she wasn’t…but she still to this day is the hottest girl I
ever fucked….she has a tattoo down her side that says “out of your league”. I
actually found out she has AIDS now. But I fucked her a few years ago, well
before her pornstar days. I got her by throwing like 50 negs at her when I got
her to meet up at a diner. Literally the entire conversation was throw and go
negs along with themed “your life’s a mess” negs hahaaha. It actually worked. Anyways,
I cement the frame that we are only going to get food and if we go hang at her
house she can’t do anything other than kiss me. I make her pinky promise. I
often do this kind of shit. Mystery calls it role reversal. YOU set the ground
rules, YOU make them promise not to try and fuck you, YOU act like you want
much more than sex, etc. All the moves the girl pulls on you you pull on her
preemptively. And it’s also coming from a terrific frame that you are
DEFINITELY hanging out and she has her little plausible deniability and blah
blah blah. Another interesting thing to note about this pickup is I had to AMOG
out about 6 different guys every time I turned my back on her. One of the guys
that came in on her was brad. The first guy I rolled up on I wrapped my arms
around her and just smiled at the guy and he panicked and fled. She was like,
hey you’re not my bf all joking/flirty. I was like, yes I am, I love you/want
to marry you/blah blah blah. Again, reraise/escalate rather than react. She
seemed to be somewhat receptive to Brad but my approach there was just say, “yo
I’m an instructor assistant for Jeffy, I’ve already madeout with this chick”
and he was like no worries and rolled off. She said that Brad was very
physically attractive but he seemed to be trying too hard. She said Tyler clearly only had
one thing in mind. And she thought Jeffy was just angry/jaded. Spot on in all 3
cases. Although she told me that she could tell I wasn’t just after sex and she
liked that. She also said it’s one of her pet peeves if anyone tries to
manipulate her and she’ll shut anyone down instantly when they try. My
congruence/calibration must be getting pretty stellar. Jeffy pulls me aside
when I’m making out with her and scolds me for losing track of the students. I
gave him shit back because he didn’t know where they were either. You could
barely move in that fucking venue and it was super annoying. I had stuck with
Aussie for a lot of the night then he had wandered off to use the bathroom and
disappeared. I tell the girl that we should get out of there and as we’re
leaving Jeffy is debriefing the 2 students outside. So they get to see me take
her to the cab in all the glory and splendor. Aussie pulled 2 for 3 but the 3rd
night was stacked against him with limited time and super busy venue…but at
least they got to see me pull for the 2nd time that weekend and
instill hope that they can start doing that shit all the time too. We take a
cab like 70 blocks to her house (short NYC blocks lol)…the diner never even
came up….we get into making out, fingering, jerking off, she goes down on me, I
put a condom on, I bang her brains out. It didn’t come up ONCE about my “no sex
rule” or her “no sex with a guy she just met” and “no one night stands” and
blah blah blah. They all fucking say that shit all the time but none of it
matters in the end. They just have to say that shit so they don’t feel slutty.
I wake up in the morning and bang her again. Now she won’t stop texting me
(which has turned into emailing me now that I’m in China). This girl holds a special
place in my heart (lol…my heart)…since Jeffy sent me in, Brad tried to steal,
she got to meet Jeffy, Tyler, Brad, and I pulled her in front of all of them
despite lots of guys trying to steal, a jam-packed environment (she was my
first and only set), and a whole bunch of objections. She also didn’t want to
take my nut in the mouth but I got her to do it the night of and the morning
after. She said she never gives morning head and has no idea how I got her to
do it. She wants to come this sat/sun which will fuck up my Saturday night
sarging but fuck it. I’ll hit the clubs hard Friday night and then try and day
2/day 3 loose ends from before my travels. My rotation is looking pretty
healthy upon my return to the states despite having been gone for so long. I’ve
been flirting with these girls via email and fucking them in the brief periods
of time I’ve been back in philly.
Another thing to mention is I hit up the sexy 18 year old
who I had daygame closed and she came over on Sunday before I left NYC. All she
would do is makeout…I tried pushing past all her objections/barriers but no go.
Who cares. Another thing I forgot to mention is on that Saturday during the day
(before hotseat), I tried to arrange day 2’s with the girl I almost pulled
Friday night (the one that got put to a decision) and with the southern chick.
The one I almost pulled on Friday night wanted me to meet her at a beer garden
with a bunch of her friends. Fuck that. I wanted to fuck that bitch not go shoot
the shit. So I didn’t go on that day 2. Although I am going to try and get her
to come to philly because she def has a real wild side…I could tell. As for the
southern bitch, the meetup almost happened 3 times that day but her friends
kept wanting her to stay with them and keep shopping and doing other dumb shit.
This actually worked in my favor though. I was texting with southern bitch a
whole bunch being real flirty before china and we’ve been emailing every day
while in china. She plans to fly to philly for a weekend in November. Our plans
include “keeping her warm” because she’s worried about the cold…comments
surrounding this have included cuddling, Jacuzzi, and 69 (she said it was 69
last time she was up north) hahaha. I also told her we could watch football cuz
she’s a big football fan…but there’s tons of sexual innuendo and flirting. I’m
trying to figure out how the fuck she’s so on/invested when the set was only
like 15 minutes. I think it has to do with the walk around the city/makeout
creating the illusion that we had spent much more time together…then her really
wanting to see me on that Saturday during the day but being unable to and
regretful…then all the flirting over text and email. If she comes to
visit…which it sounds like 90% then I’ll def close that. Short blonde
hair..sexy southern accent..fuckin love it.
So that about wraps up my super detailed bootcamp report.
Jeffy texted me on Sunday saying thanks for everything and blah blah. Then he
texted me a whole bunch more all day which was pretty sweet. He told me
something new he came up with for solidifying a girl onto a fuck buddy
rotation. He also was sending pictures of himself gardening and shit lol. I
definitely proved myself that weekend and he def sees me as a peer now and not
some run of the mill chode or wannabe. The very next night after getting back
from bootcamp I had dinner with Todd before the inner circle meeting. Todd is
treating me different now too – like a peer. He is asking ME for advice,
talking to me like a PUA on his level rather than some master, etc. Tyler has been treating
me different too and has a big opportunity with me. It’s funny that the might
Tyler Durden (Owen), Xaneus (Todd), and Jlaix (Jeffy) from the book, The Game
that I read about just a few short years ago…who I viewed as rockstar
legends…are now my fucking peers. And I have no doubt about the fact that I
will surpass them. I have already in some ways. I’m sure of it. And I’m gunning
to catch their lay counts. Here’s where they’re currently at according to their
answers when I asked them 1v1 directly:
Todd: Low 100’s
Tyler:
around 150
Jeffy: 188
I just hit 125 and 126 in Beijing this weekend, pulling bitches that
don’t even speak English. I am going to read the Love Systems text guide to
tighten my text game, I’m reading Bhagadva Gita and Power of Now for dealing
with indifference and outcome independence, I’m writing field reports and
analyzing sticking points, I’m continuing to discuss pickup with local PUA’s,
on the forums, and with the instructors, I’m hitting the gym starting when I
get back from China, etc. I have a lot of ways to improve and it’s going to be
an amazing fucking journey.
Rock n Roll.
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