Fuck closed #145

was out back home for the holidays. met a girl as i was leaving a bar and tried to pull her to a different bar. she wouldn't go because it was already 1 am and her and her friend wanted to stay at the place they were at. i number closed her and day 2's her at a bar. at the bar i got physical and started working logistics for where we were going to go after we left. i told her that we should have an adventure and go to a hotel with champagne and have fun. here are the objections she gave and how i answered them:

1. my parents will wonder what happened to me and worry about me (she's a grad student and temporarily living at home with her parents). MY RESPONSE: just tell them that you're at a friend's house and that you've had too much to drink
2. if we had a couple more opportunities to hang out then i would do something like that but i dont know you well enough yet. MY RESPONSE: i would like for things to go that way too but unfortunately we dont have time to do all that since i am leaving for philadelphia tomorrow.
3. let's just do it next time you're in town. MY RESPONSE: no, has to be tonight...we're going to forget about each other in 6 months....adventure! or you can go back to your boring life
4. (her unspoken worries about sex going down). MY RESPONSE: i know you probably are worried about us having sex but i don't have sex with girls that i just meet. it's actually a huge turnoff to me if a girl tries to have sex with me right away. we'll sit on separate beds and it'll just be watching a movie and drinking. if we feel like cuddling then we can. blah blah.

i held my frame hard and sucked her into it. i asked things like:
where's the nearest hotel
where'st he nearest place to buy champagne
what kind of movies do you like to watch
who's car are we taking, yours or mine?

sometimes i would be like, it's cool we don't have to go, it'll be super fun..but no worries....then she'd invest and chase and be like no i want to but....... -- and then i'd answer the objections.

so we end up getting a hotel jacuzzi sweet, poppin champagne, and smashing the fuck out of each other all over the room. ran into some token LMR but was no big deal to overcome.