So Julien says in his pickup manifesto that this is how the night should be structured:
10-12 (or first half of the night)
Logistics are bad for pulling so you are CREATING LEADS FOR MEETING UP LATER THAT NIGHT. So each number close should be done like this:
PUA: let's meet up later
PUA: what's my name?
girl: blah blah
PUA: good, and when are we meeting up?
girl: later
PUA: cool. i'm texting you my name right now so you have my name and number. when are we meeting up?
girl: later
PUA: and what's my name?
girl: blah blah
PUA: cool [exit set]
Getting her to repeat your name and the fact that you're meeting up later gets her to:
1. Invest
2. Crystallize you
3. Solidify the FRAME that you're meeting up LATER
If the girl is UNABLE to meet up later, close under the FRAME of meeting for the day 2. Julien does this as "meet me tomorrow for coffee". This is good because it allows the least amount of time for emotional/investment erosion which happens as more time passes with you two apart (otherwise known as the girl going "cold").
12-bar closing time (or second half of the night)
Logistics are now good for pulling. So...
1. Lock into sets for longer.
2. Get the girl to invest.
3. Each of you should contribute roughly equally to the interaction
4. Create a bubble so it's just you and her. This can be done by getting up in her grid so her RAS is focused on you. It can also be done by moving her around the venue and between venues so that you remain the only constant.
5. Hint at the pull. I.e., "Afterparty"
6. Suggesting that you guys go to an afterparty will cause her to raise her objections (friends, has to be up early, etc etc)
7. You answer her objections and work the logistics.
8. PLAY TO WIN with the KILLER INSTINCT and try to pull.
9. If you can't pull anyone successfully, hit up all your numbers that you closed under the frame of meeting up later. They are all EXPECTING to meet you later. This is like your pull insurance that you seeded throughout the night.
So that's basically it. To recap:
1. When you have bad logistics (i.e., beginning of the night), frame the number closes to meet up LATER
2. Try to pull in the 2nd half of the night
3. If a girl can't meet up LATER, then frame the number close as meeting for a day 2
The big mistake that i've been making ever since i've been in game is closing all my numbers with the frame of the day 2 (which is step 3 -- aka julien's last resort). He says that the day 2 just gives you BETTER logistics...that is, you're meeting for a date somewhere near your house (the sex location) when her friends aren't there and you have time with her and shit. So the day 2 should be viewed as a way to get BETTER LOGISTICS. I usually am not trying to pull or screening for logistics so there must have been COUNTLESS girls that were both DTF and had GOOD LOGISTICS for pulling that i've missed out on. My lay count should actually be WAY HIGHER.
So, from now on, I am going to close all numbers with the pretense/frame of meeting up LATER. If the girl is unable to meet up later then I will close under the frame of meeting up for the day 2. Second half of the night I am going to lock into sets and work logistics for pulling. This includes answering objections. If I do not pull, I will hit up my "pull insurance list"...aka all the girls that expect to be meeting up "later". Then I can still day 2 all the bitches that I didn't get to pull. This strategy will add a ton more lays.
It's interesting to note that when i DO pull, it's because i have no options for day 2's (such as on bootcamp) or when it's an off-night (because there aren't a lot of girls at the venue..forcing me to lock in and try to pull), or if it's towards the end of the night (because i can't keep number collecting at that point).
when i'm on bootcamp i'm looking to get LAID, not get DATES. in philly i think, oh i'll just get a whole ton of numbers and therefore dates and therefore bangs...there's so many hot girls out so i have to talk to all of them. fuck that.
GAME CHANGER NUKKA.
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